Steelslady
Justice for Kelsey
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But she's a 15 year old girl - I don't blame you, that's smart!
But a 20 year old man who's on his own.. that's odd to me.
I don't know about these apps myself as I am not tech savvy. However, my kids all leave theirs set to location trackers on their own just to be on the safe side. Both of my daughters had unsavory experiences- one was a stalker from her work (a customer who still does from time to time) and the other was a sexual predator that lived close by and by the Grace of God, I followed that bleeping pig to give him a piece of my mind and reported his license plate- that's how I found out he was a sexual predator. I never did catch the jerk myself, but let's just say, the cops handled him. So, both of my daughters on their own said that they have put trackers on their phones in case something ever did happen to them again, we or LE could hopefully find them. My son has it on, too.
I think folks don't give a lot of kids credit when it comes to safety- many really don't have an issue with leaving their locations on, so long as parents aren't ridiculously checking up on them to a point where they can't go out somewhere without criticism or negativity. My kids also call or text me if they're going to be late, staying the night at a friends, or going somewhere else such as they were going to the movies but decided to go bowling instead. I never bother them, just encourage them to always be aware of their surroundings, safety in numbers and so on, but I don't embarrass them or harass them unless they are really late and I just want to make sure they're not broken down somewhere or something else is going on and they need help. Believe it or not, my kids tell me often that they feel safe knowing I am home waiting up for them to get home at night, we do live in the country, so that may be another reason why it's a secure feeling to them. They know if they don't get home by the time they tell me they are coming home, I will text first, then call, and if they're ok and just running late, no questions asked, just a polite thank you and I'll see you when you get home is all I do, but you know what? They do me the favor of letting me know they're ok almost all the time, so I in turn only call when they are about 10 minutes late just check to make sure they're ok, and it works for us beautifully, this system we have. I, as a mother, appreciate that they all do this for me..