Kapua
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I'm in Chicago and honestly if I weren't following this thread so closely, I would have no idea ET was missing.
I've been following since #3 but I don't think I've chimed in with an opinion yet. I have seen a lot of regular posters in here speaking about TC as an inhuman monster, so I just wanted to speak to that, as opposed to offering up yet another suggestion as to where they might be.
TC is still a human, and trying to separate ourselves from what he's done not only doesn't help find Elizabeth, it hurts us all by treating what happened as something that only monsters do. Early on in there threads posters kept saying there were all these red flags, but how many hundreds of thousands of people in America could be described exactly the same way as TC before he took her?
Did school administration drop the ball? 100% no doubt. But let's not pretend we couldn't be the ones dropping the ball in a similar situation because someone doesn't SEEM like a bad person.
I'm kinda meandering and losing my point, but I just wanted to emphasize how important it is to not "otherize" TC or any other criminal, because it's what leads to situations like this where we have people in their community feeling like there was no crime committed at all because they never viewed TC as a bad person.
I posted in a much earlier thread that the husband of a woman in my social circle had molested her daughter (his step-daughter) and niece, both about ET's age. We all thought he was such a nice, sweet, caring man and a good husband to our friend. And he was. But he was also this other person that we didn't know with a very dark side. It was, and still is, hard to understand and process.
As for the school, all I can say is that policies and procedures exist to protect students from teachers that don't SEEM like bad people.