I never said I was perfect, I don't believe I am, yet I will still stand by the fact that I would never ever leave my child in a car. This is why I choose pharmacies only with drive through service.
Can I imagine it? Perhaps, in my worst nightmare yes. And I bet you this is what is happening to this father. I can not fathom how this can happen, that is what I am saying. Of all the things that could happen during the day to trigger that something isn't right, and none of them happened to save this poor baby's life. A phone call from the wife, the alarm going off on the car, someone asking him about how his kids are doing, something, ANYTHING, but instead, nothing.
I can be pretty ditzy at times. I get myself into situations that just plain suck sometimes. On Tuesday I had to run back home with my 2.5 year old in the car to get my checkbook real quick. (I was gone MAYBE 30 seconds) I went through my garage which is off my kitchen and my checkbook was on the table. I left the car running since I had the AC on, it was a hot day. I got back to the car to find all the stupid doors are locked. My keys in the ignition, my purse and phone in the car, my son strapped in the carseat. It's a 2 door so the unlock button is too far for him to reach. Out of some luck, the back window hatch was unlocked so I climbed through that way.
I once slammed my son's fingers in a car door, I have hit his head on a door frame while carrying him, sometimes I hit his head on the ceiling of the car when I'm getting him in his car seat.
I am not perfect, never will I claim to be. It does not take a perfect person to be able to wonder how the hell someone can leave their 15 month old strapped in their car seat and go about their day.
I would expect, if out some of irony, it ever happens to me, that you will be here to start a thread about me and tell me what a horrible parent I am and how stupid I am. I would deserve it.
I do have mixed feelings about the father being charged. Losing a child is losing a child is losing a child. Whether it be from this, a car accident, murder, whatever, the grief is still the same. I believe his acts (hopefully) were not intentional and that he should be able to be with his family.
However, I also feel that keeping these stories in the spotlight helps to show parents about the dangers out there and to always make sure you don't leave your baby in your car.