Here is my take... Not that it is worth much. I think that no matter what her life looks like on the outside, She has had a rough time with her mom and family and so that makes life hard no matter what your tax bracket. I find her mother cold and distant and cruel, actually. I do feel like she walked into this with a married man and so I don't know how she thought it would be different for her. As for the show. I think it is a mistake, However, If she had not done it how many people would be out there screaming, " She showed us all the good stuff and not she is a hypocrite for being silent." I do think that there are times when to me it looks like she and he are acting. As actors I actually like them both. Dean did a movie called The Christmas Visitor with William Devane that I like a lot and I liked some of Tori's Lifetime movies and 90210 The first one. I feel bad for anyone going through this. But I really feel bad that it is all documented for the kids to watch one day.