Oct 30, 2007, journal entry from Jodi . . . . Let’s go back to who Deanna is . . . . Deanna was the woman who TA was in love with for 7 years . . . . He was still in contact with her when he had other women, including Lisa and Jodi . . . Jodi believes that Deanna was a little crazy and jealous . . . . Travis had Jodi drop him off around the corner to avoid Deanna. . . .
Oct 6, 2007, journal entry. . . . Travis compared Jodi to Deanna. . . She says that he believes that he has to hide his relationships with her the way he had to hide them from Deanna . . . . ALV says Jodi and Travis are still having a relationship in October . . . . Jodi believes that she is not like Deanna . . . .No sign of jealousy in journal . . . . There were signs of jealously coming from Travis in journal . . . .
Oct 7, 2007, journal entry from Jodi. . . . Jodi attended a talk on motherhood and the importance of being a good wife and mother . . . This was in the forefront of her life . . . Jodi was starting to feel that she was not going to get this from Travis . . . . But she still had hope . . . . Learned hopefulness. . . . Back and forth between relationship will work and relationship will not work . . . .
Oct 13, 2007, journal entry from Jodi . . . . They go to a balloon festival in Albuquerque . . . TA was still dating Jodi . . . The trips are bonding for them, trying new foods together . . . . You never know when good things will happen, something to look forward to . . . . If I stick with this I will get what I want . . . When you share special things it keeps you in a relationship . . . . This trip was special . . .
Emails between Lisa and Travis in October. Objection. Approach.
Travis reassures women when they are suspicious of his behavior . . . Shortly after they come back from the trip where they have had a really good time and bond with each other, he is confirming his relationship with another woman . . . . This is very deceptive . . . it is manipulative because it reinforces someone to believe what you say. . . . We generally believe someone is telling the truth unless we also tend to lie about things . . . .
End of October. The first incident of physical violence. There was an argument about everything, how she dresses, her friends, her jobs . . . . He grabs her by the shoulders and shakes her. . . prevents her from leaving. . . . pushes her to the floor . . . . until he calms down. . . . Lasts a couple of hours . . . . Travis called her family names . . . said Carl was a gay name . . . . To put down someone’s family is significant . . . .