I completely understand. I wouldn't have thought to have done that either when I was younger. They couldn't force him to talk... just like you couldn't be forced to talk either, if you didn't want to. But, I get it. I'm not trying to argue with you. I was in my 40's before I ever married, and I always lived alone prior to that. I'm glad you are no longer in that situation. No doubt it was scary. Lots of creepy people in this world.