All I want is the truth. IMO it doesn't make B's life less important. We all have had friends, family etc with substance abuse issues. It's very sad. I wish he could have gotten help. It sounds like he was able to stay clean for a good year. Sometimes it just takes one little minor thing to make someone relapse. He needs to be found either way. If he's alive and on the run I hope he does the right thing and turns himself in. If nothing else, for his children. If he's deceased, where could his body be? He just could not have gotten that far! My problem is not with B. My problem is with those who are being dishonest NOW about the events of that night and totally misleading people and pointing fingers where they don't belong.