mpnola
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I dont care about mom or dad. Im just here to say I believe her. No victim, much less a child, should have to prove abuse. A grown woman has a hard time processing this type of thing. A child? I would never need some doctor to examine and say what happened. Because no doctor could look at me today and say if something happened or not. I will just believe the victim. No additional trauma or betrayal needed. Just believe them and protect them. I would put my sons videos, face, words, EVERYTHING anywhere if he was being abused and i was being forced to send him back, after I tried protecting him the legal way. Nope. Nooooooo one would ever convince me to send him back. And if it took me going live to have others see what I saw, yep. I woukd do it. And I am not a drama girl nor do I exploit my child. But to protect him, I would do anything. (For the record, that would never include caravans or putting anyone at risk. I just want him safe with me).
I think people do not realize just how much it takes for a child to actually admit to abuse. They are USED to being traumatized and pulling it together, to not alert the rest of the world. It is how abusers keep abusing. Because the victims are resilient! It doesn't make them any less victimized. How about we just believe victims without making them "prove" how bad it is or was.
I think people do not realize just how much it takes for a child to actually admit to abuse. They are USED to being traumatized and pulling it together, to not alert the rest of the world. It is how abusers keep abusing. Because the victims are resilient! It doesn't make them any less victimized. How about we just believe victims without making them "prove" how bad it is or was.