Usually I don't see relevance to somebody using past tenses.....and I am opposite to you that I don't know why people suspect it in every case. If somebody asked me about a male somebody I used to work with, that as far as I know didn't die..and they are asking if we were romantic...missing or not... Am pretty sure I'd say "No.. I was his supervisor.. I was his friend."Because it's an old workplace and I aint there no more senario and am determining the relationship had.... so maybe the question is.. did he still work there in May... I'm in no way defending this person by the way... just feel 'was' is something very unreliable in peoples use of vocab...to the point that they are suggesting that they 'was' alive but now are not.When do people start using past tense in missing persons cases?
Quote from Mr X "She WAS my work colleague. She WAS my friend. I would like what everyone else wants - to get her home safe. I do wish she is found safe and back with her family.” From May.
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