Wow! This is all new information for me! Unfortunately I can't view the video as it says "unavailable in your country"
figures! So I have never heard this before. Is there any more information about these facts or just these basics?
There are a couple of LDS owned cattle ranches in Wyoming on the Mormom Trail that were active in the 60's I see. Suppose he just loved the life of a cattle rancher!
But as for the girl he grew fond of...could we be right to assume that Reed had a girlfriend? Did he meet her while they were at the ranch? This new information is making my mind spin! Can we assume that it is possible that Reed was on his way to see her, perhaps running away to be with her? Remember what it's like when you are 15 and in love...that person is the only thing that matters and you are going to spend the rest of your life with them and can't bear to be seperated! well, that would certainly explain why Salt Lake LE informed Kansas City LE to be on the look out!
Looking into this, the short answer would appear to be "no", you don't have to become a missionary, it is not a requirement. However, the long asnswer is definitely "yes". Members are "strongly encouraged" (for this I would tend to read "pressured") into becoming a missionary. If all of my family and friends had done or were planning to do missionary work and I chose not to, I can imagine I would pretty much be treated as an outcast. The pressure from the community to do missionary work must be huge. I feel like back in the 60's it could have been even more acute...almost a sense of shame.
What I hadn't realised were the rules regarding personal relationships and communications. I have included the links below to the Missionary Hanbook if anyone is interested, but basically I have bulletpointed the ones which would seem most significant to Reed if we think that he may have had issues at home and maybe also a girlfriend:
Missionary Standards for Disciples of Jesus Christ
www.churchofjesuschrist.org
Missionary Standards for Disciples of Jesus Christ: Supplemental Information
www.churchofjesuschrist.org
- Single missionaries are prohibited from dating or courting while serving missions
- While missionaries may interact with members of the opposite sex, they may never be alone with them or engage in any kind of intimate physical or emotional activity (e.g., kissing, hugging, holding hands, flirting).
- Missionaries are admonished to "avoid all forms of worldly entertainment."
- They are not permitted to watch television, listen to the radio, watch or go to movies
- They are not permitted to listen to music that has romantic lyrics or overtones, or merely entertains.
- Missionary companions are instructed to stay together at all times and not to go out of the hearing of their companion's voice or out of sight
- Missionaries do not go on vacation and, prior to February 2019, were permitted to telephone their parents only on Christmas Day, and one other day of the year, usually Mothers' Day.
I mean wow...for a teenager growing up in the 60's who was just getting into their football and maybe girls too this sounds like not alot of fun!
I can see this too. It's not unheard of at all for Mormons to run away from a stifling life of rules and regulations, in fact I think it is quite common for LDS teens to leave and have very little contact with family members afterwards.
JMO and we can never be sure but if Reed was also suffering some difficulty within the family then it probably wouldn't be so difficult for him to leave and break off contact (I refer back to his father's suicide...potentially guilt-ridden?).
Ok ..I literally just found this statament by Reed's brother:
Keith Jeppson doesn't think Reed would have run away out of anger.
"After 45 years, the anger would dissipate and he would come back," he said. "After one year. After six months."
http://ac360.blogs.cnn.com/2010/05/25/1 ... -reopened/ May 25, 2010 1964 cold case reopened Posted: 08:17 PM ET Gabriel Falcon AC360° Writer A 45-yea
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What anger? Who said anything about anger? Is he saying that Reed was pissed at something? This is the first time I have ever heard this before. The page linked seems to have alot of information that I have never read before; for example I never knew that Reed's older brother Taylor had borrowed money from him the Saturday before to take his wife on a date. Why did Reed have so much money? I don't think a paper route pays that well!
Jon would be the most likely person for Reed to reveal his plans to and I agree with you
@Satch in that Jon was unlikely to ever reveal this for fear of the shame it would bring. Unless of course Jon did tell his father and that was what caused him to take his own life. Jon having knowlege would explain some things like his odd version of events, seemingly trying to adjust the timeline and why LE were so interested in him.
I really, really want to believe that Reed ran away, maybe to be with his girlfriend in Missouri, changed his name and has lived a happy and fulfilled life somewhere. Maybe he had kept a limited contact with Jon over the years. I love the thought of him raising some kids and some dogs on a ranch somewhere!
But I also have to be realistic. A 15 year old runaway who had lived a relatively sheltered life in Utah would present a very vulnerable target. I think it could be worthwhile to recheck UIDs in Utah, Missouri and the states in between especially since there is DNA on file. Maybe even the unidentified victims of serial killers.
Just a question that has been bugging me that maybe someone can answer: Regarding Reed's braces, if Reed needed to have them removed then would any dentist do this without having Reed's dental charts? Or could Reed sign up with another dentist no questions asked and continue with the corrective treatment? I am assuming that LE must have Reed's dental records on file as well?