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<modsnip - response to quoted post> Why would any parent want their disabled child to attend a mainstream school so badly that they would attend the school with their child daily?. That is ridiculous.
Can we not imagine for a moment that for now, mainstream was their only option and the resources were not in place to help this family?. Why would a school agree to a parent attending with their child everyday?, my guess would be that there was no other choice.
Maybe we could wait for any facts to come to light before we judge and condemn these parents for wanting the best for their child, and clearly doing their best for him.
The gun being secure is a separate issue, and I agree with everyone else, it wasn't secure if he got hold of it.
I'm a retired NYC teacher.
Here there are thankfully many options for parents of children with learning and/or behavioral disabilities.
When I was a new teacher, "Special Ed." students and their teachers were segregated into their own wing in our school. This was policy across NYC.
About five years into my career, the policy became the "Least Restrictive Environment" and this population was mainstreamed into the General Ed. classrooms. From then on the students were heterogenous and it was common to have paraprofessionals as well as a Special Ed teacher working alongside me.
Different paras had different purposes, depending on the needs of the student. There were many "1-1" paras assigned to a particular student who needed extra supervision. The hard part was meeting with the Special Ed. teacher every day to draw up lesson plans with accommodations, since I also had to do that with the ELL (English Language Learners) teacher in a different class, and several lesson plans per day is a lot of work when we could never align our programs to meet often enough!
I taught 8th grade, and I have never had a student who was mandated, at that older age, to have a parent or legal guardian with him or her. That would be mortifying for a 13 or 14 year old.
It is not that difficult in NYC to get a child who needs help into Special Ed. I have a friend who lived in Puerto Rico and moved here just because she needed her child to have the appropriate services.
There are, though, particular schools which are called a "600" school. (The teachers there made $600 more annually, back when that was real money). Those schools were for older children who did exhibit violent behavior and whose least restrictive environment was deemed to be in a 600 school. I've known teachers who work in such schools, and they love those kids and work diligently to help them with all the staff and resources available.
It's patently obvious that if the child accessed the weapon, then the weapon was accessible.
Are the parents at fault? Right now they are victims and I imagine have endured much over this child whom they love. If they missed a step one day in securing the weapon, that will come out. Right now my heart breaks for all parties involved and I pray for the teacher's full recovery.
I have never taught such young children and have never known anyone who encountered a little child with a gun. I can't imagine how that would proceed legally in NYC.
ETA: I forgot to mention the last resort alternative for students who have not responded positively to years of intervention.
My friend's son, who had trouble controlling himself since toddlerhood, was sent in high school to a residential facility in upstate New York. While there he somehow cut down a tree branch and attacked a teacher with it. Eventually, thank God the environment, and the empathetic and trained personnel were able to help him succeed.
ALL of this was paid for by the NYC school system, and today he's a 38- year old wonderful man who works in animal rescue.