Arkay
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My grandfather died when I was six, and I understood it completely at the time, and still at aged 65 remember details about that day. Heart attack on the street, it was the last day of first grade, and my father still gave me a Mary Poppins record album that I had wanted.Children begin to grasp death's finality around age 4. In one typical study, researchers found that 10 percent of 3-year-olds understand irreversibility, compared with 58 percent of 4-year-olds. The other two aspects of death are learned a bit later, usually between age 5 and 7.
When Do Kids Understand Death?
Wednesday morning I went to the funeral of my husband's grandfather, who had lived 93 years. As a couple of dozen family members circled around his grave site, I couldn't help but think of how bizarre and disorienting death is.www.nationalgeographic.com
My grandmother died the next year when I was seven, and I remember that entire day as well and understood it completely. She had a stroke in our house and was unconscious and we knew she was not coming back.
My daughter and later on my first granddaughter learned about death at those ages when their starter pets (hamster, goldfish, turtles) died. They absolutely understood that those pets had lived in their rooms and now no longer were alive.
Whether this child understood that aiming and shooting could lead to death, I don't know, but I would guess yes. I didn't grow up in a world of video gaming and 24-hour TV, but I certainly understood death. These kids now are exposed to all kinds of things through media and shooting game videos.
IMO he knew he was doing something wrong because he was hiding the gun.
Jmo, obviously, not knowing this particular child and his mindset.