I just don't know how you know the "lack of doing anything" to find them. That's not been my experience. To be fair, my original post wasn't directed at you, more toward the idea of blaming someone who also wants the same thing we all want, a safe return of their loved one. Just trying to have more compassion and respect toward those impacted by his disappearance. Maybe I'm just lost too, not trying to start an argument. I'm just not sleeping and I know these are both good people. Seeing either spoken of negatively during this time is just really tough to read.