Was just jumping back on here to say the exact same thing! It takes two to tango CD. It infuriates me that some guys (not suggesting all) put all of the responsibility on the woman to ensure that she is on birth control but we all know that it isn’t 100% effective. If he was so against having any children then he should have also taken precautions himself. JMO and MOO only. ETA - I cant wait to hear about his background at trial. I wonder if there are reasons for him holding this particularly strong views against having kids.