If he really did kill himself over a divorce or seperation, then it would be coincidental to this John Doe case, also from the Doe Network: http://doenetwork.us/cases/720umsk.html About his appendoctomy scar- do you think it's possible that he suffered from stomach problems? Would the surgeon/whomever would recognize him as their patient? Or was the appendoctomy the result of his death? The whole marriage thing fits in with his estimated age range with his year of birth probably being from 1970-1981. If he was 30- there is a good chance of estimating how long he could have been married for. But if he was 20 and was married, what age did he marry at?