I don't mean take him away. I just mean hold him and feed him in another room while mom sleeps. Sorry if that was confusing.
Oh I know what you meant, let me see if I can explain myself better here. :seeya:
What I'm saying is that at the hospital she felt completely out of control when her baby was taken.
She felt like she didn't even HAVE a baby because he wasn't in the room with her.
She obviously didn't realize that she could DEMAND her baby be in the room with her 24-7.
Once she got home I would expect her to keep him with her constantly, now that she had the control.
I do doubt anyone else was feeding him since she was breastfeeding.
You tend to only breastfeed for a while, before introducing bottles.
When I was in the hospital my baby did not leave my sight unless she was with DH.
If they needed to take her vitals they either came to my room, I went with her or DH went with her.
When I got home that did not change. I did not sleep and let someone else take the baby, ever.
So it IS possible to do that. (I know c-section Moms who have done it as well.)
For me as a teen Mom it was very important for me to prove that *I* was doing this and
only I.
I would have seen it as a complete failure if I were to say "I need a nap" or need any help.
(Which I didn't, because my first baby slept through the night from birth.)
This complex came from my mother telling me from the positive pregnancy test that I would fail.
She said I would be an awful mother, that I couldn't do this and I would need lots of her help.
I've never asked her for ANYTHING since that day. :floorlaugh:
I don't know if Brianna had any of those feelings...
The things she said, the relationship with and demeanor of her mother sure do sound familiar... :banghead: