dexter75
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Agree, OldSteve, way to many cases like this. A few folks I see think just because girls grow up with a boy that the guy doesn't see the girl as anything other than a " friend " I'm here to say ( if it hasn't already been said ) that circumstances change. Boys & girls grow up. I'm going to use myself as an example..Just saw the ID show - wow! Seen so many cases where the "he was just a friend" who gives a teen or young woman a ride home or to someplace.... once alone with the female, he makes unwanted advances that are rejected, and the outcome is not good. There is never conformation of the victim ever arriving where she's supposedly left off... Finding the victim is important if the case is to be solved and requires getting warrants right away, and bring in allot of resources right away - lie detector tests of the suspect, forensics of his car, clothing, etc., etc...
I grew up with a neighborhood full of boys. I was freckle faced, slim, baseball playing every weekend, football in the backyard " just one of the boys " UNTIL I hit about 17.
At 17, I was genuinely beautiful ( bear with me, I don't talk like this EVER but am trying to add perspective ) and I tried, I LOVED making myself up, still do.
At 17 my " friends " were noticing and their perception of me was changing. I was so wrapped up in myself and what I was doing ( traded in my bat for curling iron ) I never noticed UNTIL a " boy " I had walked to & from the bus stop with every day for YEARS was over one day and tried to kiss me. UGH. It was so awkward.
Anyway, looking back at my 17 year old flighty, naive self, I can absolutely see how a younger, inexperienced teen boy could have taken my actions & statements for an invite. He was neither violent nor on drugs and had nothing in his life that would be considered a " stressor " or the like.
I said all of that because if Kevin DID secretly have a thing for Kayla and he WAS indeed on drugs/high, well? It's not far fetched at all.
Idk how LONG they knew one another or how often they hung out. ( maybe him having wheels was very convenient for Kayla? )
Were nearby lakes searched?
Perhaps like here in Michigan, hunting season will uncover clues/remains one day.
JMO
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