borndem
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Indeed and agreed.It's in the context I always thought it was "Burn after reading" because it's so incriminating.
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Indeed and agreed.It's in the context I always thought it was "Burn after reading" because it's so incriminating.
I don't believe his parents were in an over-protection mode because, if that were the case, I think they wouldn't have given Brian access to a gun. From all that he had with him, he was obviously despondent over Gabby's death.MyBelle, I totally agree with you that she loved him immensely. And I have true empathy for the pain she must be suffering at the loss of her son's life. No parent should have to suffer the loss of their child under any circumstance.
But I also realize that love sometimes drives parents to extremes. I know it's only my opinion, but I think the Laundries, in this case, felt driven into over-protection mode in the belief that it would save their son.
The almost proverbial words of 'Dr Phil' resonate in my head - "How'd that work out for you?"
Certainly sharing only my opinion.
We now know for a fact that he had a gun. We have no knowledge whethwer his parents gave him access to a gun or not.I don't believe his parents were in an over-protection mode because, if that were the case, I think they wouldn't have given Brian access to a gun. From all that he had with him, he was obviously despondent over Gabby's death.
JMO
The 47-page report also detailed items recovered from the scene where Laundrie’s remains were found including a backpack with a tent and flares, a piece of paper and red hat with the logo “Moab Coffee Roasters” and a wooden box that contained a small notebook and photos, according to the report.
In the notebook found with his remains, Laundrie wrote he was responsible for Gabby Petito’s death, according to the FBI.
Laundrie had been the subject of a weekslong manhunt when his body was found. His family was informed he shot himself in the head, and his death was ruled a suicide, Laundrie family attorney Steve Bertolino said in November.
iirc, the FBI confiscated the family's guns and one was missing.We now know for a fact that he had a gun. We have no knowledge whethwer his parents gave him access to a gun or not.
But even that fact does not indicate that his parents gave him access to the gun.iirc, the FBI confiscated the family's guns and one was missing.
JMO
edited by me...for brevity.I don't believe his parents were in an over-protection mode because, if that were the case, I think they wouldn't have given Brian access to a gun. From all that he had with him, he was obviously despondent over Gabby's death.
JMO
again, edited by me for brevity...I don't believe his parents were in an over-protection mode because, if that were the case, I think they wouldn't have given Brian access to a gun. From all that he had with him, he was obviously despondent over Gabby's death.
JMO
I remember seeing a photo of his bedroom and there was a gun hanging on his wall. If I had a severely depressed son, there is no way I'd allow any access to guns.But even that fact does not indicate that his parents gave him access to the gun.
MyBelle, I agree wholeheartedly. Neither of us (nor most parents) would allow any of our children access to a gun if we felt they were depressed or emotionally disturbed for any cause at all.I remember seeing a photo of his bedroom and there was a gun hanging on his wall. If I had a severely depressed son, there is no way I'd allow any access to guns.
JMO
BBM. The problem is with the parents who don't care. I find it sickening that Brian had access to a gun. Florida has some pretty strict red flag laws which is likely the reason why the FBI showed up at their house and seized them.MyBelle, I agree wholeheartedly. Neither of us (nor most parents) would allow any of our children access to a gun if we felt they were depressed or emotionally disturbed for any cause at all.
Even if they had blocked access to all their family guns it does not ensure that the preventative measures were effective. He may have used force to obtain the gun or found it if it were hidden.
It is a fact he had a gun; it is an assumption that access was even prevented.
IMO, it WAS Brian's mom's responsibility to communicate with Gabi's mother. It was her responsibility as a mother and as a human being, to tell Gabi's parents that Brian returned in Gabi's van, and she is not here. IMOBBM. Gee, do you suppose Brian told his mother about the Moab Utah incident in which Gabby admitted to police that she hit Brian?
It wasn't the responsibility of Brian's mother to communicate with Gabby's mother.
JMO
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Gabby Petito took photo of her injuries on same day Moab officers responded to domestic violence call: lawyers
A new photo from the phone of Gabby Petito shows her injuries just before she and Brian Laundrie were in contact with the Moab, Utah police department, according to lawyers for the slain girl's family.www.fox13news.com
Why was it Brian's mom's responsibility? Gabby told her mother about the Moab incident while police were present.IMO, it WAS Brian's mom's responsibility to communicate with Gabi's mother. It was her responsibility as a mother and as a human being, to tell Gabi's parents that Brian returned in Gabi's van, and she is not here. IMO
The 2 families had been friends for years. Keeping that news from them was heartless, imo.
That is the point. Gabby told her mother when she was alive but how on earth can she communicate with her mother after Brian killed her?Why was it Brian's mom's responsibility? Gabby told her mother about the Moab incident while police were present.
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BBM. Gabby told her mother on Aug. 12th. Why didn't her mother notify LE when she couldn't reach her?That is the point. Gabby told her mother when she was alive but how on earth can she communicate with her mother after Brian killed her?
My son and future DIL go off on a trip and only my son comes back, my future DIL is gone, lost, missing maybe dead.....DIL isn't communicating with her mom, gee I guess I should give her the heads up on what is going on. Let her know we need to find her daughter, she is gone and my son is scared and says he needs a lawyer. He is using her debit card and can't find her to get her to OK it so now the feds are breathing down his neck threatening to arrest him.
You know what? Brian is all that matters. Too bad for Gabby's mom, she'll just have to deal with it, tough luck, let her figure it out, I'm gonna block her from my SM and ignore her calls. I don't care that this will cause her to have sleepless nights and end up making her scared and frantic.
I'm not breaking any laws, I can do whatever I want, he's my baby boy.
2 Cent speculation....but there has to be some degree of hate to treat your future DIL's parents that way.
in spades.. a continuum of deliberate and calculated actions to attempt to remove Brian from any thing to do with Gabby after a night out at a restaurant ( where Bri , as per usual, I suspect, had a tantrum, stamping his feet, argueing with the staff, humilating Gabby, provoking tears, all in a days work for our Bri ) and the oddest lapse of judgement, so odd, that it cannot be considered a mistake, it had to be deliberate, was the failing to change the ownership of Gabby's van. He couldn't drive it, as it was now uninsured ( once the death of the owner was established) he could not pay off any owing money's on it, he couldn't get any repairs done without the owners say so, he couldn't register it in his own name, and he had forgotten to get Gabby to sign it over to him while he was strangling her.That is the point. Gabby told her mother when she was alive but how on earth can she communicate with her mother after Brian killed her?
My son and future DIL go off on a trip and only my son comes back, my future DIL is gone, lost, missing maybe dead.....DIL isn't communicating with her mom, gee I guess I should give her the heads up on what is going on. Let her know we need to find her daughter, she is gone and my son is scared and says he needs a lawyer. He is using her debit card and can't find her to get her to OK it so now the feds are breathing down his neck threatening to arrest him.
You know what? Brian is all that matters. Too bad for Gabby's mom, she'll just have to deal with it, tough luck, let her figure it out, I'm gonna block her from my SM and ignore her calls. I don't care that this will cause her to have sleepless nights and end up making her scared and frantic.
I'm not breaking any laws, I can do whatever I want, he's my baby boy.
2 Cent speculation....but there has to be some degree of hate to treat your future DIL's parents that way.
in spades.. a continuum of deliberate and calculated actions to attempt to remove Brian from any thing to do with Gabby after a night out at a restaurant ( where Bri , as per usual, I suspect, had a tantrum, stamping his feet, argueing with the staff, humilating Gabby, provoking tears, all in a days work for our Bri ) and the oddest lapse of judgement, so odd, that it cannot be considered a mistake, it had to be deliberate, was the failing to change the ownership of Gabby's van. He couldn't drive it, as it was now uninsured ( once the death of the owner was established) he could not pay off any owing money's on it, he couldn't get any repairs done without the owners say so, he couldn't register it in his own name, and he had forgotten to get Gabby to sign it over to him while he was strangling her.
But Roberta, having this non registered 'gone' owner car sitting in her driveway, under the auspices of her own home owners insurance, a big bomb if that van had rolled onto someone, or leaked fuel and set fire to the lawn etc SHE DID NOTHING about it, probably in the hopes that no one would notice, thinking that oh well. when gals break up with Bri they give him their cars as a parting gift, Bri is so nifty etc..yet was in constant consultation with lawyers, attorneys, paralegals, Uncle Tom Cobbley and all, day in day out, organising this, that, the other, issuing instructions to the sister and son in law to lay low, say nothing,
If this case does go to trial jury selection will be how it's decided.That is the point. Gabby told her mother when she was alive but how on earth can she communicate with her mother after Brian killed her?
My son and future DIL go off on a trip and only my son comes back, my future DIL is gone, lost, missing maybe dead.....DIL isn't communicating with her mom, gee I guess I should give her the heads up on what is going on. Let her know we need to find her daughter, she is gone and my son is scared and says he needs a lawyer. He is using her debit card and can't find her to get her to OK it so now the feds are breathing down his neck threatening to arrest him.
You know what? Brian is all that matters. Too bad for Gabby's mom, she'll just have to deal with it, tough luck, let her figure it out, I'm gonna block her from my SM and ignore her calls. I don't care that this will cause her to have sleepless nights and end up making her scared and frantic.
I'm not breaking any laws, I can do whatever I want, he's my baby boy.
2 Cent speculation....but there has to be some degree of hate to treat your future DIL's parents that way.
I expect every single juror to be disgusted by this. Heartless, selfish, bordering on evil.
Yes, I've read it and firmly believe Laundrie's parents did nothing wrong."Statement On Investigative Review of Aug. 12 Petito-Laundrie Incident"
There are many posts here about Petito & Laundrie's encounter w Moab PD which draw conclusions about LEOs' actions being appropriate or inappropriate, etc.
Just started reading it and find it interesting.
I'm curious about whether any, some, or all have read the above "Statement," linked below, an analysis by an independent law enforcement agency.
Anyone?
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