Histrionic is exactly the word that has been going through my head about Oscar. Just didn't want to say it out loud because I get scared to post what I really think a lot of times - I'm scared of the reaction I'll get from many other posters.
I come in the form of your worst fear. Sorry. I mightily enjoy your posts. Everyone here should read your post on the "theory of what happened that night" thread.
A few things:
1) There is no evidence to suggest that disabled people are more "sensitive"(Not in a global sense and certainly not we use the word to imply sympathetic or aware). The word "histrionic" suggests displaying emotions in a theatrical way. All or even the majority of disabled people (when controlling for medication, type of disability as TBI would be different, stage when became disabled, pre-disability profle) can not categorically be said to be more prone to being "histrionic." OP has been disabled since birth. He has adapted quite succesfully to his disability. However, I would suggest that, given his image consciousness, and his preference for glamor girls, he might have underlying insecurity about his own physicality.
2) If you really do mean "histrionic," then a) This trait does not explain away OP's conflicting, embellished, self-serving testimony. b) As a personality or character disorder, histrionic is often a dual diagnosis along with narcissism and border-line personalities (not all of whom are murderers, but narcissism is noted in sociopaths, not all of whom are murderers! "Not that there's anything wrong with it" Jerry Seinfeld)
3) Those with intermittent explosive disorder could tend to be histrionic or emotionally labile.
O.K. I am rather twisting your use of this word to find OP culpable. But it seems to me you tend to make excuses for him and to go to some lengths to do so, which only suggests you are a more trusting, optimistic, less jaded person than I am.
P.S. Don't hesitate to post for fear of the knee-jerk pile on. It would not be any fun if we did not have an adversarial board, one composed of those feeling strongly on both sides. Adversarial justice systems offer the best process. Both sides do have to go to some lengths to support their arguments and theories. They tend to support passionately, an appropriate means of persuasion.
You persuasively represent the "let's not rush to judgement; OP is not necessarily guilty of unlawful homicide" side. No-brainer in that you are a lawyer.
Keep posting and chipping away at the other side's arguments to give the Pistorious trial board SOME balance or it devolves to "group-think," preaching away at its own choir.
The truth, though elusive, is often found in weighing two opposing sides.
In other words, where would we be without you Minor?!:loveyou: