Kinda of O/T, but today I was reminded about how things can look one way from the outside world and be a totally different thing in reality.
I am a single mom and just this week the CIS worker at my dd's school pulled her aside to make sure everything was alright in her world. This is because my neighbor noticed that she doesn't seem to be playing outside as much lately and asked them to check up on her. Well, this is easily explained. I work 2 jobs and she goes to an after school program sponsored by her school..so they know where she is all day long. I get off work and pick her directly up from there but then after making sure homework is checked & corrected etc, darkness has started to creep in and there is NO WAY she will be even playing in our driveway during dusk...it is time for dinner, bath, etc.. Add this to the fact that after making sure she was dressed appropriately for school today (cold front coming in so it means extra layers, thicker coat than a hoodie..) she showed me that she had cut out two hearts and then cut out peace signs in the middle of the hearts. She had made an envelope for them and had written her teachers name on the outside. She told me that she was getting ready for valentines day early and wanted to take them to her teacher. Of course I said ok.
I immediately thought of the stuff being said here about how sad it was that Hailey showed affection towards her teacher. Yes, with the stuff we have learned about Hailey's home life it probably was a cry for help in her case, but it isn't always. Someone not aware of all of the TINY details of my story that wouldn't even be worth mentioning would put that my daughter had been checked up on, and loved her teacher enough to make her stuff = terrible situation at home. Not always the case. My daughter is just very loving and loves to draw and cut stuff out, LOL!
Maybe I'm rambling..but I felt that these events have helped me to remember all is not how it seems.
I am praying for Hailey to be found today!!
Sorry for my long book of MOO and stuffs..