I am trying to put myself in her shoes with the information that we have. First thought is, yes give the paperwork to someone so you know it will be safe and not found, and that could be the only reason she did it. I can't help but wonder if she knew something was up or possibly something was going to happen to her. A gut feeling anything like that so she MADE SURE those papers were safe and at someone else's house.
Now no two people are alike, I would have kept copies with me and with someone else. I don't know if she did that or not. I just have this gut feeling she feared for something and I don't know what that fear was and that is why she gave the paperwork to someone to hold. I thought I also read awhile back that she had given other items or paperwork to other friends as well. Why? Why not just keep all the items and paperwork with that one person you trust.
If your holding onto the paperwork yourself, yes you run the risk of being called out. If someone else holds the paperwork for you, it can't be destroyed upon your disappearance by someone--therefore no one would ever know the secrets that you kept..........
I agree. I recently had a very close friend expecting a divorce basically due to the same sort of situation we are beginning to see emerge with Gail.
She retained an attorney, and every single written exchange with her attorney, as well as financial records, childrens school/medical records, phone records, receipts, etc... EVERYTHING- she kept a hard copy of in a PO box she opened unknown to her spouse, and sent me (across the country, may I add) a copy of everything.
Which makes me think of something (I may have missed this, if so mea culpa) but do we know if Gail had a PO box anywhere?