In what world is someone who's looking for extreme bondage and having someone force them to eat ***, etc. being selfish? Just for example, if any of us were to find out that our adult child had made a post like that, would we consider them selfish or seriously troubled to their most severe detriment and want to get them help - serious help - immediately?
I could be wrong, but I think some posters feel that acknowledging lm's obvious and serious mental issues somehow diminishes the gravity of the crime. Speaking only for myself (but I think numerous others, if not all, agree) it does not. But I think the suggestion that putting one's self out there as willing to eat someone's excrement, be bound, beaten, raped and left naked to find a way back home just for some lulz is selfish rather than deranged is quite a stretch, whether or not the poster quite literally wants those things to happen. jmo