Recent content by neenna66

I agree with all of your points. I think RP needs some intensive help. Do I think she needs massive jail time or worse like some want? No I think intensive probation and help are what she needs. I just get so scared when I see some of the pure rage directed at her in the ways it is. Like I said...

Rayne makes me also think of someone who has been so violated and not given proper life skills, that she just stopped maturing mentally/emotionally. Not saying that to cut her down or to build anyone who hates her up. I have stayed away from this thread because of some of the hatred spewed...

Actually I don't see it this way. I have heard cw's as young as their late 20's to 50's use this term. I am also friends with a cw and she told me that they often do it that way. I was confused as to why one cw said paramour and another said cohabitating unmarried. The one who said paramour was...

Dcf would not use terms like that anyway. And when you are receiving tanf and/or food stamps, you are allowed to be living with someone else. They just see what type of relationship you have with that person before giving you cash assistance or food stamps. Dcf 'protective' investigations are...

When i was investigated by dcf due to my ex burning up their phone lines, they used this term about my boyfriend. I personally think it is used when a cw wants to give the appearance of something 'hinky' because in the same investigation, one cw used paramour, and the second used live in...

Has anyone on here ever made a choice they ever regretted? I have. Thankfully none o those choices ever directly put me or my child in the position that RP and cherish are in. And I am ever so grateful for that. I will learn from her mistakes and from other mistakes, just like I hope that those...

I had posted a very long answer and after reading the comments decided to erase it. I will take my concern for cherish and her family, the people she loved elsewhere. I am sorry I cannot have my opinion about this or ask a question about people's actions in this. And by people I mean the main...

If a parent lost a child in a fire would we say she is blaming the victim if the child was not where the parent thought that child was (child ran from one room to another) if that parent made a statement, I don't know why she left her room. Spellcheck utilized so I do not miss any vowels...

No I do not know her. I just want to understand. And i vocalize that when I don't understand things. DS can never be understood. He is a monster. Rayne has her own issues I am sure. So does everyone in this case. Maybe I shouldn't have done as much research on this case. Maybe then I wouldn't...

DS was no longer a stranger at that point. That was RP fault and she has even said as much. I just want one link where RP said to any reporter that BJ was bad or any other negative about BJ. It is not there. And this is my opinion but her statement about what happened, cherish going with DS, can...

There are always two sides to every story and IMO when Bio dad opened the door by speaking about the paternity case, it also opened the door into his actions during that time period. And she could have retaliated about his actions during that time and before but I have yet to read anything from...

I hope that the prosecution of this person goes smoothly, the prosecution makes no mistakes and justice is served for cherish and her mother, sister, father and extended family and friends. I hope that there is nothing that can be appealed and laws can be passed or enforced to ensure no more...

That's what i was saying oo. I also wish that these families had worked together rather than fought. Can any of you imagine what kind of lve and car these three could have gotten if Bio dad, step mom, stepdad, and Bio mom nd extended family had helped each other? Thank you both for apologiing...

I really feel like nobody is reading what i write. I have known plenty of biodads and moms when faced with support payment, they offer or ask the step parent to adopt. I am not saying that what AP says is true, what i am saying is rather than take cherish from the only parent she knew for almost...

I m not blaming Bio dad. I am simply saying that with all the mudslinging, all the fighting bickering finger pointing, that even before smith killed cherish, that none of the children lived a normal life. I have never said rp is not to blame either. She made some foolish choices. Everyone...