Wow, I just read all of the threads. Sending good thoughts to you and your family, Missie. Very curious about the tats. I'd think it would be difficult to have a pseudonym with a different last name with those tats. Anyway, it sounds like your lives growing up were a lot like mine, and she reminds me a lot of me when I was her age. It's a miracle I'm alive, so I'm hoping for the same miracle for her (and you!).