Adrienne37
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I wondered if it is an Atty that is withdrawing or if her petition/request is being withdrawn . . . . (ie: relinquish parental rights over the children)?
I am certain that a Psych Eval would be court ordered if she wanted to continue her relationship with MM. I would venture to guess that she did not comply with any of the court orders or visitation requirements to see MM. Her "princess" child. The favored child (over Sky), yet JB doesn't even try to continue a relationship with little M?
Solomon was right when he said Julia cares more about cleaning the counter than feeding their children. Was Julia ever volitile? Did she act out physically? Did she throw things, hit, scream, break things, hurt the children? What was her power over SM to force him to use toilets elsewhere and not sleep in their bedroom? Why was it so much better to take the children out to eat than bring food in? What level/extent would she go through that made it so unbearable that one would defer to her "power and control" over eating, sleeping, playing, toileting, bathing, etc?
I agree Wenwe. I've felt for a while that she would pull a Terri Horman and not even bother to show up for her visits or do anything that was required of her. Obviously, M is better off without having Julia's influence over her. One visit could wipe out the last few months of progress that M has made since being away from her.
I wish we had answers to all of your questions about Julia. I wholeheartedly believe that Solomon tolerated the situation for as long as he possibly could thinking that if he left he would be able to get the kids but we know that didn't happen. I can't imagine what it must have felt like for Solomon to be dehumanized to the point that he couldn't even use the bathroom in his very own house. It must have been absolute hell for him. I can't imagine how he felt in that year after leaving trying to fight the court systems to gain access to the children. My heart just breaks for him.