Hello, everyone. I'm up in Ontario, and I'm really glad to be here. The reason I'm writing today is that I felt very, very strongly about the interview with the psychic reader from Detroit, and I wanted to share my take on it with you. I believe that that reading has every earmark of a Bereavement Reading: a reading that occurs right after death, with messages that cover very specific subject matter, and, more importantly, show attempts by the spirit to help HEAL the person left on earth. This spirit was very intent on HELPING Casey. Love is what motivates the Spirit Realm; they want to share peace with those left on earth. This reading does that. THIS is why I feel it's a real reading; it is full of love and connection--not just helpful and entertaining facts. To me, it's the amount of love and care shown that indicates it's a Spirit making connection.
Recent death readings also address: cause of death, the feelings surrounding the death--kind of a final accounting--("I realize you didn't mean to hurt me."), and guidance from the spirit about the emotional state of the person left behind--again, ALL in the hope of healing those left behind. JUST LIKE MANY HERE, in this situation, this spirit realizes that Casey would not have PURPOSEFULLY hurt her. She sees the love that Casey has for her.
I realize it's very difficult, because we're talking about a world that not everyone believes in--the world of the spirit. So, I felt I should highlight what is typical of a GOOD, respectful, sacred reading--NOT one that is designed to provide instant answers, and entertainment value. So: 1) The spirit, (Caylee), addressed the cause of death. Spirits do that in the readings RIGHT AFTER THEY PASS. This identifies who they are to those listening. 2) She has a concern for Casey's situation, and seems to KNOW Casey: She knows that from a "soul" perpsective, Casey needs to talk. And the spirit also seems to understand Casey's soul challenges that are making her stay quiet: her Dad, her self-esteem, her motivations 3) She did all this in a gentle and compassionate way--not judgementally. 4) She spoke to what she knows Casey is suffering from: guilt, and being trapped--and she DIDN'T just mean trapped in THIS MOMENT, alone; she meant IN CASEY'S ENTIRE LIFE, she's always felt trapped, and desperate to escape being controlled. I think the spirit knew that Casey's coping mechanisms, (lying, stealing), are dysfunctional. I think this spirit KNOWS Casey.
1) Some of you are concerned that the reading seems "polished"; sometimes, readings are very clear, and you get full sentences, whole paragraphs. Zapf may have cleaned her message up a bit, so that it could be understood by us on television, and she didn't have to say single words, or incomplete thoughts.
2) TO THE BLOGGER WHO was concerned that Zapf said "Caylee is at peace", and then later said, "She wants to be found". : These 2 statements do not contradict each other; being at peace, to a reader, just means they are "in spirit". It still leaves room for Caylee to want to be found--especially for the benefit of Casey, who needs this information to come out.
I am a member of the intuitive community, up here. Zapf has very good and solid credentials. She's learned from respectful teachers. It is also true that sometimes, readers don't hear well, or they ARE NOT AWARE THEY ARE SPEAKING TO ANOTHER SPIRIT, AND give wrong information.
I think Zapf listens carefully. I think she is quiet enough. She may have got a few facts wrong, but it's the overall feel that is speaking to me. I think that reading needs to get to Casey--NOW.
Thank you for reading this.