wenwe4
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I just re-watched NG tonight to attempt to pseudo-transcribe what Taylor Searle stated about the Oral and Anal sex being less of a sin than vaginal sex in the Mormon religion (NG's question- not mine).
Taylor stated the Mormon religion is very strict about having sex before marriage. There "is a lot of grey area" that Mormon men have considered about their sexualization. he doesn't agree with this interpretation and there is nothing in the Mormon religion that states what is allowed and what is not. Searles stated "Everyone has been there before, finding the lines that they will or will not cross". Searles furthered that he did not know the context where or how Travis said that but he "could imagine every Mormon guy has had those thoughts about what is and what is not allowed". NG attemped to interrupt and say "or even if Travis said it" and Taylor agreed "if" he said it at all.
Taylor also stated he did not like Arias because she was so posessive of Travis and his home. Taylor had gone to TA's home to bake cookies with a bunch of other people. He used to be Travis' roommate and had been @ the home many times. JA answered the door and said something like "welcome to my home". Taylor thought . . . wait - who are you and why are you here?
Taylor also stated he asked TA if he thought JA might be violent - given the escalation of behaviors . . . TA replied something to the effect of she's harmless - what could she do?
**I just wanted to add that I am not posting this information to "blame the victim" in anyway. Only to add that there is some credibility to JA's statement about the sex. I think this played a role in her rage toward TA. She was good enough to be a "****** buddy" but not good enough to take to Cancun or to become his wife or partner for eternity. JA had been living with another man before she met TA. He wanted her to date and be baptised in the LDS faith - but later realized how unstable she was (I imagine). I am not sure how he could have completely severed the relationship with JA. I think she was so obsessed with him that she would have done anything to keep him or never allow him to be with another woman.
Please do not become offended by my post - I am not trying to upset anyone or enrage people. I am merely a messenger of my own experiences and how "common" Travis's friend thought the rationalization of sexual do's and don'ts for "every Mormon".
Taylor stated the Mormon religion is very strict about having sex before marriage. There "is a lot of grey area" that Mormon men have considered about their sexualization. he doesn't agree with this interpretation and there is nothing in the Mormon religion that states what is allowed and what is not. Searles stated "Everyone has been there before, finding the lines that they will or will not cross". Searles furthered that he did not know the context where or how Travis said that but he "could imagine every Mormon guy has had those thoughts about what is and what is not allowed". NG attemped to interrupt and say "or even if Travis said it" and Taylor agreed "if" he said it at all.
Taylor also stated he did not like Arias because she was so posessive of Travis and his home. Taylor had gone to TA's home to bake cookies with a bunch of other people. He used to be Travis' roommate and had been @ the home many times. JA answered the door and said something like "welcome to my home". Taylor thought . . . wait - who are you and why are you here?
Taylor also stated he asked TA if he thought JA might be violent - given the escalation of behaviors . . . TA replied something to the effect of she's harmless - what could she do?
**I just wanted to add that I am not posting this information to "blame the victim" in anyway. Only to add that there is some credibility to JA's statement about the sex. I think this played a role in her rage toward TA. She was good enough to be a "****** buddy" but not good enough to take to Cancun or to become his wife or partner for eternity. JA had been living with another man before she met TA. He wanted her to date and be baptised in the LDS faith - but later realized how unstable she was (I imagine). I am not sure how he could have completely severed the relationship with JA. I think she was so obsessed with him that she would have done anything to keep him or never allow him to be with another woman.
Please do not become offended by my post - I am not trying to upset anyone or enrage people. I am merely a messenger of my own experiences and how "common" Travis's friend thought the rationalization of sexual do's and don'ts for "every Mormon".