Especially since we know this is what OCA really really wants - to be a mom again - since she so obviously enjoyed it the last time.:banghead:
I would guess the one thing OCA does NOT want is to be a mother again, unless it has something to do with getting a man she wants, and even then it would have nothing to do with motherhood.
And by the way CA, what with you being a nurse and all - How the heck did OCA get to be 17 or 18 without you getting her to a doctor for some kind of birth control - what was up with that?
Whether or not she was sexually active was none of your business, but making sure she was educated in sexual information and providing her avenues for receiving birth control if she so chose - was your business. I can't imagine anyone in today's world not doing that. 'Cause there aren't many teenage girls who are really honest about what they are up to at that age - IMO.