I agree. I do think that her meeting men on Craigslist for "massages" or whatever is probably what was going on(or something similar). I am not really sure what to think of the husband. But I am inclined to believe that Jaymie was involved in something. I feel that the fact that the husband made the statement about Jaymie's activities only after he got a lawyer is telling.
What I think is that hubby didn't initially want to tell police what was going on because a)it made her look bad and b)it also made him look bad. Maybe he thought that people would be less likely to look for her if they knew what was really going on, and that she wasn't going out to meet a friend. I think the lawyer told him, hey you gotta tell what happened, even if it is embarassing to you and jaymie. So he made those statements.
On the missing FB page for Jaymie, her mother-in-law(who seems to really care about her, by the way)said that the cop who first showed up at the van was kind of nasty tothe husband. He apparently made comments along the lines of "well why don't you know where your wife is? I wouldnt let MY wife out that late at night" Something like that. Which may not be true, but it could be.
Just in case anyone here thinks I am disparaging Jaymie, I am most definitley not. I don't care why she was out when she was. I don't care what she was doing. The fact is she is missing and she needs to be found. I hope that she is ok, but I just have a feeling something very bad happened.