You know, Solace, one of the things that gets me about the question of was JonBenet sexually abused, is that I don't think Patsy's response to hearing of evidence of prior abuse is one of a mother who had no idea at all that someone may have been doing something to her daughter. I don't have it on hand, but she just doesn't seem that surprised to me at hearing there was evidence that JonBenet had been molested before the night she was killed. I remember it. It is in the Enquirer book, which is great by the way. Haney asks her if she would be surprised to learn that there was sexual abuse (not verbatim). She says dam surprised and then asks the detective SHE HIRED if he had heard about it and he says yes there was talk. I cannot imagine that she did not hear about this, that the detective she and John hired certainly told someone.
All the doctor visits, with that weird Dr Beuf, the school nurse visits, the three calls in one day that Patsy can't recall the topic of (I thought it was written down on the report that it concerned the bed wetting and the rashes - could be wrong), the sexualization, the toileting issues, the abnormal structure....plus Patsy's lack of shock at hearing of suspected prior abuse....the story that she had changed when she came back from that Texas trip......I really think maybe someone was doing something nasty to JonBenet. I have no idea who.