katydid23
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I know it is rough for her, but I do think it is better for her son, FOR NOW. When he is 18 or so, and more mature then it will be fine to explore his relationship with his birth mom. But he had a very rocky early childhood, and was not adopted until after he had been in foster care, with his mom suddenly disappearing from his life. It must have been devastating. So I think his adoptive family needs to help him build some stability and normalcy in his life before he opens up this painful can of worms. A young boy woyld have a very hard time dealing with learning about the things his mother went through. It is going to be a rough journey for him.
At some point they will be reunited. Hopefully when he is a healthy, well adjusted college student with strong family ties to help him navigate those waters.
At some point they will be reunited. Hopefully when he is a healthy, well adjusted college student with strong family ties to help him navigate those waters.