I agree. Some fail to acknowledge that the Stanleys and their friends have been the primary source for a good bit of information that is circulating. While I would stop short of accusing them of lying outright, I would suggest that having one's children removed with an accusation of abuse or neglect is an incredibly difficult situation--even in cases where the abuse was far more apparent than in this one. Denial is a human defense mechanism to protect against blows to the ego.
I do believe that the Stanleys have, at best, exaggerated claims to make themselves appear better to the public, to their friends and to themselves. When I see reports of "fully-armed sheriffs" storming the house in the middle of the night, I tend to look very carefully. In fact, some combination of authorities (DHS and Sheriff) arrived at the house in late afternoon with a warrant to search the house for MMS (and we really do not know what else it may have said on the warrant). Reports say that they were forced to stand outside in freezing weather for as long as 5 hours. In fact, they were offered a seat in a warm cruiser, but preferred to stand on the front porch so they could observe. And some authority brought their coats to them within the first half hour.
Based on pictures provided by the Stanleys, LEOs had weapons--as they always do--but I see nothing whatsoever to indicate that they were ever unholstered or that anyone ever made reference to them.
So, in short, when Michelle announces that they had no idea until the hearing that there were accusations of physical abuse, I am skeptical. By her own report, their attorney was provided with papers three days prior to the hearing. I do believe that Hal has even backpedalled a bit (again, interview given to Magellan--available online) in saying that all they heard or focused on was the MMS. Absolutely understandable. But not quite the same as their only being told of the MMS.