joanne does my head in.
she has her cake and eats it too imo.
she takes over lyns life to me in a confident manner like that's that then.
if she truly went along with chris's crap on about lyn leaving of her own accord...why was she not worried or preoccupied about lyn coming back???????????
what if chris and lyn rekindle????
they do have 15 years of history together afterall.
where does that leave me???
if I was a 16 year old in this situation I would be petrified i'd loose him to her at some stage. as she should have been scared. (of this outcome) once chris realised what an incompetent little girl she actually was compared to a beautiful confident trophy wife mother he once had.
but no...….
these thought processes NEVER crossed her mind . the removal of lyn is what THEY BOTH WANTED.
imo
I agree in principle with most of what you are saying. Joanne isn't the total victim with regard to the relationship with Chris. The youngest daughter's comments regarding Joanne probably have some truth to it.
Joanne from all accounts was a victim with her mother's abusive relationship. I would be guessing most abusive relationships don't start abusive. Joanne probably wouldn't have seen this with Chris in the light she sees him now. She may have seen the relationship as a way of getting out of the abusive home situation without realising she was getting herself into something equally as bad for her or worse. If this was the case she was also using Chris.
I don't think Joanne had anything to do with the disappearance of Lyn. Maybe she asked where Lyn was in the beginning and got a negative response back and decided it was better to keep the peace.
Once in the relationship it may have been very hard to get out.
All my opinion.