I understand where you are coming from, Impatientredhead, I really do. But my children didn't get anonymity--the rapist did (as he was still a minor). My children were filmed entering their school, for heaven's sake. The media described them in such detail that they could be from only one family. We decided to deal with it by teaching them that they had done nothing wrong and they needed to hold their heads up high. We trained them in social stories, how to deal with inappropriate questions, and how to set boundaries on their privacy. This is one place where Children's Advocacy Centers really shine. They do a Trauma Assessment and advise families on the best mode of treatment.
I agree that the article does not need to go into minute detail as to what forms of sexual abuse a child suffered, although, anyone reading most articles can link to documents. However, I really don't see how this is different than releasing the info that the infant in Georgia had 22 broken bones. If we're going to de-stigmatize the victim's role in sexual abuse, we must start now!! With the current system, there's a disconnect with the crime and the victim and the final outcome for the criminal. People don't connect the dots. They forget the stories. Then we end up with citizens voting for soft-on-crime laws. I happen to believe that it's important to make these crimes more personal, to force people to remember the victims and their stories. Until we get to the point that victims of rape carry no more shame than the victims of assaults and drunk drivers, we've got work to do. Where better to start than the children?
The Amber Alert is a double edged sword. It is swift and it helps locate kids. However, children are named in the Alerts. I applaud the press in attempting to remove names once a child is found. The rest is up to the parents, guardians, and therapists. It is their job to help the victim become a survivor and to not accept shame...either for a rape or for broken bones. JMO