Here is one of the biggest things that does not sit right with me.
WHY would SIL leave Bobs home 3 or so hours later without calling his wife to say, "honey your dad isn't home yet and I haven't seen him for several hours....."
A simple phone call to his wife PRIOR to leaving Bobs home could have led to having checked the neighbors Bob may have visited and a drive through the neighborhood Bob usually walked. When it was discovered Bob was NOT at a neighbors or taking a walk in the neighborhood calls could have been made to report Bob missing FROM BOBS HOME and LE could have been at Bobs home that night.
Instead, SIL leaves and no one is concerned until AFTER he gets home and his wife and sister in laws start making calls. By then LE has the idea Bob is cooling off and they hope he comes home Wednesday, losing precious time.
My hinky meter is flying that SIL did not contact his wife that Bob had not returned prior to leaving Bobs home that day...... Especially knowing he was an 80 year old man with bad knees, bad eye sight had NOT taken his car and not taken his house key. Nah, I'll just let everyone know when I get home? Especially when it has come from the daughters they were concerned Bob was showing signs of mild dementia....
jmo
