BigFatMommyDog
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I worked in mental health over fifteen years before I met a female psychopath. It is a severe borderline personality with malignant narcissism, in my opinion. It put me out of the business forever. It is the most difficult and scariest situation you could ever be in. I met her when the jail she was in just couldn't handle her anymore.
butShe came to a clinic for rehab for Borderlines...OMG! Their pathology gets right under your skin. It doesn't matter how well trained you are. I will never be able to convey what it was like. Just imagine yourself being locked up w/casey anthony all day...and you have to listen to her. If you as much as give a look of not approving, you are going to suffer the wrath but she won't tell you she is mad. You will never know what hit you. They are cunning and manipulative and will use your words against you. You will scratch your head in disbelief. You doubt yourself. You can't believe what is happening.
It is a more than an uncomfortable situation. You can never get a grasp on what is going on. It crosses your mind that they may kill you. You begin to question your own sanity. One needs to stay away from this type...thank goodness, many never cross their paths. To this day, I get upset from the thoughts of being around her back then. I never want to work or be near a severe Borderline with Malignant narcissism for the rest of my life.
I think I owe you a "thanks" - today I was trying to remember who had given us a rundown on malignant narcissism/borderline and I could not remember "who", but I remembered the "what" - many thanks friend Whisperer - a bit ashamed I couldn't remember you - an "old" friend.
Much of what you have said throughout supports the almost surreal "Stockholm Syndrome" sort of reactions we have seen exhibited by the players in this case. Your insights have been illuminating and invaluable.