SillyNilly
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She can't face her family. That speaks volumes.
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SuziQ, by the real ZG, do you mean the woman who spoke to LE and then to the media this week? I think so, just double checking.
I think the heated fight was about Caylee and who the mama is, and Casey took her to prove the point and the unanswered calls also to prove a point on the other side, want help, (in any way, but probably money) bring Caylee back. When the parents didn't answer, she went over and stole the gas, thus saying, help me or I'll help myself, whatcha going to do about it. What did they do? that was the first time LE was contacted.
This is a family dispute, fighting over the little girl. I think Caylee is fine, and Casey isn't going to break under mama's pressure to return her child. Someone has Caylee, the babysitter, but with Casey's permission.
This is jmo.
The reason behind these actions are:
There is something deep within us, that won't allow us to believe we are worthy of love or that we are 'anything' at all, since most of our life, we were the 'adult' for our parent or parents.
When you need to be there for THEM, to make THEM happy, to make everything ok for THEM. Us? Well ... I had to put myself last, if I disagreed with my mom, or did or said, anything to hurt her or let her down ... it was as if somebody stabbed me in the heart .. I just COULDN'T.
I was the 'chosen child' and she told everybody that I was SUCH a good daughter, that I was ALWAYS there for her, and that all her other daughters (I have 3 sisters) weren't there for her, and have hurt her .. yet "I" was the loyal one and always there to defend her, and stand by her.
As an adult, it was very very hard to take care of myself emotionally, to put myself first. I had many devastating relationships, that left me feeling even MORE alone and unworthy.
Yes, it's true .. a Borderline can be very hard to love. That's because we require so MUCH love and attention. And that's because we're SO empty.
We don't trust ... if we do, it's one or two people at most, and even have a hard time trusting them.
It's sad actually ... it truly is! I can tell you from my OWN heart, even though it's so very hard to understand us and to keep loving us, we're more broken than you can understand ... in that I mean, broken hearted, our spirit is broken, and we feel so very empty.
aprilshowers
Was there ever a sense of guilt, shame or remorse?
I'm not really sure any of you are reading this or want me to continue?
Maybe I need to stop for a break and go back and see if anybody is reading.
What if nothing happened to Caylee until late the 17th or early the 18th?
Would anyone care to re-sleuth, but delay the possible time for a day or so? The reason I ask is because of the very short time period between George's leaving for work and the first flurry of phone calls on the 16th. This doesn't seem to be enough time to me. And, I somehow have a hard time thinking that Casey would have done something in the daylight hours. No idea why I feel that way, other than I would think she might want the cover of darkness, and yes, I do think it might have been pre-meditated.
ABSOLUTELY!!!! You hit it RIGHT on the HEAD!
As a matter of fact, one of the biggest expressions of people with Borderline is: The LOST Child
If J quit the force on the ...(24th) and we think that ZG was at the apts on the 16-18 maybe he saw her car and got info. Where was he stationed? Anyone know, where was his typical beat?
But even if they did mean it; if her belief system is to doubt, suspect, not care, or if she is totally self serving, not compassionate, frozen....They can say anything - it would not be the answer to finding caylee. IMHO a professional is needed here.