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Coming from someone who is married into a hispanic family and living in an area with a large Mexican population...this IS NOT a cultural thing.....could be a way to get a green card; however, it is not typical for the culture to allow their thirteen year olds to get knocked up by much older men. Most of the Mexican families I know all involve the husband and wife being close in age, not the husband being much older...except for my husband and I; he is quite a bit older than me, but he is NOT Mexican, he is half Spanish.
Many of us can be thankful that we were raised in a 'space' where we simply weren't exposed to this sort of thing. That probably means we lived above abject poverty, our future options were not entirely bleak or hopeless, and we weren't surrounded by drug/alcohol/aid & entitlement addicted people.
As to the 50's, isn't that around the time Jerry Lee Lewis married his 13 year old cousin and Elvis Presley imported a 14 year old for in-house easy sex? I do remember visiting Mississippi back then and seeing a celebration of a 13 year old's pregnancy because she would be marrying the baby-daddy when she turned the legal age of 14 just weeks before the baby was born and would then be "set" for life. The parents of the girl were wealthy owners of thousands of acres of rich Mississippe Delta farmland. I guess they figured their daughter's only option for a 'bright future' was by way of marriage and they were securing it early! *boggle*
For the most part, I don't think this kind of thing is nearly as related to time in history as it is to factors in the lives of the victims, whatever the ethnicity. It is a socio-economic issue, and all the more reason to emphasize raising people out of poverty and hopelessness. We have seen that simply throwing people the bone of public aid (or mailbox income as some call it) has mostly created a generational sense of entitlement rather than a helping "hand up". Reform is a SERIOUS need in this country, for sure!
This is a cultural thing for people in certain regions in Mexico, Central America and South America. I was told this by a friend that is from Mexico. It is like here in the US among some people this is also excepted. Hell when I was in High School I remember that most of the girls that were from Mexico were pregnant and married by time they were 16.
First, I know they are here illegaly from various incidents, events that I've witnessed. I saw a man pull up in the front one day and they all gathered around - the guy "fanned" out social security cards and each one took one! On the east side of me - the building is 3 apartments. The back apartment houses (at any given time) 5 to 12 young men. The rotation of men in and out (there are basically 3 guys that stay all the time). Of those 3 - only 1 is legal and I've been told this by others that have "hung out" with these guys. The owner of the building - IMO is running a sanctuary house and that's why the constant rotation. All of these guys are alcoholics - witnessed by the actual drinking, staggering, and then the "emptying of the bottles and cardboard containers" the next morning. I counted one day and they brought out 25 12-pack empty containers. We had to install security cameras on our house - and through that I have watched the drug deals, the hookers, and of course "the bathroom" activities of all of them. These are from Guatamala and Houndruas and down there the sanitary systems are horrible - so they don't use a bathroom. They come outside and just do their business - last year they "wee-weed" all over my garden and ruined the entire garden.
As for what these guys wanted to "do" with my DD - they just want to get their hands on her. I've watched the "gang" cat-call other girls that walk down the street. So, whether or not they are looking for a "marriage" or just that they like young girls doesn't matter to me. The age difference culturewise is obvious - they want younger girls and it seems to just be ok. We do have families further down the street. Once they have an "anchor" baby - everything kicks in. I watch everyday - these two women who have 7 kids between them and one is pregnant again. I've seen them in the grocery store swip their food stamp cards and then go to the desk to "western union" over $500. in cash back home.
LE and local PD know all about this area and while they tell us that they will let ICE and INS know about it - nothing is ever done. Last year - one of the guys next door stabbed another one. LE came, the victim went to the hospital. I followed up with LE because the "stabber" was also the pedophile that was peeking in my DD's window - seems the victim refused to talk and wouldn't tell what happened or who did it. Why? Because he was illegal and knew the other was too - and they don't RAT. The victim never showed back up but the other one is still there and "livin' large".
As for this family - it is very possible that once this girl is married, yes she will be legal - but once that baby is born - regardless of her status (married or not) that baby is a citizen and she, at least, will stay.
"once that baby is born - regardless of her status (married or not) that baby is a citizen and she, at least, will stay."
I am not really understanding the level of hostility going on here. If it is in our laws that a child born here is a citizen, then we should treat them like a citizen. If you don't like the law, do what you can to change it. As a citizen that child will have rights, and a really big right in our country is the right to not be discriminated against.
I also don't get the point. A baby can't very well live in the USA all by themselves. Someone will have to take care of them. Most likely, family members who are already legal here. All of which would be legal. If you don't like the legal stuff, you are free to work to eliminate it. I don't really want to know why someone would want to do that, but help yourself.
As a Native American ( or as we call ourselves, Indian or NDNs), it is bizarre that people get so worked up about who lives here. History tells me that we used to live here until people stole our land. I don't have much sumpathy for people who espouse racist talk about a land they stole from someone else anyway.
Bottom line is, there are people who will hate Hispanic people (legal or not) whether they even actually know if they are legal... if they are inherently racist. But- nobody has a problem with that? It's all about the 'illegals'? Don't you think that the people who travelled here from other countries and took over a whole county that wa already owned by other people were the original
"illegals"?
I didn't see it stated what the citizenship status was of anyone named in that article. I'm not sure what it has to do with the situation myself.
As I'm sure you know, OneLove, the emphasis on the Inca, Maya and Aztecs (all cultures that fascinate me, BTW) originated because they created civilizations (particularly including architecture, city planning and art) that were more easily recognized by the arriving Europeans.
On another note, I've lived within 100 miles of the Mexican border for 25 years now. Oddly, I hear far less hysteria about "illegal Hispanics" here than I do from the rest of the country.
So true, Nova. I only wish they had included the Anasazi culture of the same time period that was within our own present-day boundaries. They had well-developed communities, art, agriculture, and extensive roads. They had woven cloth from growing cotton and feather blankets, along with amazing pottery and jewelry. The cliff dwellings were extraordinary and Mesa Verde in southern Colorada has a wonderful museum of the remnants of their civilization, along with restored cliff dwellings and kivas. They also traded commerce with west coast civilizations and the Incas, Mayans, and Aztecs. They are seriously under-represented in education about this time period.
On the different attitudes about "illegalls" closer to the border, I had an epiphany the first time I really saw the great southwest. It is clear, if one pays attention, that it was THEIR country before we killed people to take it from them. I've had alot more respect since that time.