He indicated he was looking for a text from Michelle saying she still cared and was just a little confused.
Perhaps an analysis of the P.C. should be addressed here.
Lets start with a rough course on body language. In this case, lets focus on the eyes.
Below is data retrieved from the www with a link to it that follows:
How To Read Eye Directions
Without going too deep into neuroscience, let’s look at how a person’s eye directions can tell you what they are actually thinking.
You have probably heard that there are two main parts to the brain:
- the right side: the emotional side, and
- the left side: the logical side.
When we look right or left for a period of time, one side of our brain gets activated more than the other.
This is predictable for right-handed people: When a right-handed person
- looks to the right, their left logical brain is dominant
- looks to the left, their right emotional brain is dominant.
How can you use this?
When dealing with a right-handed person, you’re more likely to make the person feel relaxed and comfortable if you activate their logical side. That is: if you place yourself to their right.
Why?
Because doing the opposite activates their emotional brain… which is home to their emotional and stressful memories. Doing this makes it much more likely they’ll feel nervous, anxious, and uncomfortable.
What if the person is left-handed?
Well, there’s no predictable rule in this case unfortunately. I’m currently researching the best way to deal with this and will let you know when I find something that works.
But there’s more to know about eye direction.
The field of NLP also observed that, depending on the conversation’s context, the position of someone’s eyes can give you clues of where her words are “coming from”.
Here is a simple way to illustrate this:
Body Language:
Visual Cues click the link for a little visual
Put simply…
- Looking to their right or up and to their right:
–>Using their imagination – watch out for exaggeration of the truth or for complete lies.
- Looking down and to their right, or to their left, or up and to their left:
–>Using their memory – they are being honest and truthful.
- Looking down and to their left:
–>Deep in thought.
IMPORTANT NOTE: There is some controversy about this model.
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Body Language coupled with the following statements may glean some insight. Follow along with
the video, pause and replay as necessary, to translate their body language for yourself.
During post interview with m:
'vindictive towards me."
During post interview with d:
While the rest of his thoughts tumble out effortlessly, he begins to stumble and becomes animated during the following statement:
"...oh ya. We have to be together fer- for the rest of our lives, you know, aand (a stretched out 'and') as far as I'm concerned- it's done. You know, she's the one, you know.. she sent me this text message last night, saying she still cares- and she's just a little confused, you know... so now... now she's changing her story again. She's bi-polar."
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Possible trigger points after airing (including statements that would/may have been unknown to either, prior to airing):
"some people like the excitement of the fighting" said by people on street
"thrill" said by Harvey
"You don't punish them in order to punish her- that's crazy!" said by judge
"This fatal attraction relationship here, a... Is there still anything left to it?" said by Kurt
"No. It's over" said by M
D's pre-occupation with his phone, distance from the post interview, and courtroom noises, could have prevented d from hearing the post interview comments made by m and/or Kurt. Likewise, M may not have heard post interview comments made by d/ or Kurt,
Neither would have any idea, of course, about what had been said, during the trial, outside of the courthouse.
It is these details, IMO, that may have been at possible contention as to which straw it was that may have broke the camels back.
At the same time, none of this could mean anything.
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I make no accusations or assumptions. I merely seek the truth and offer up possibilities.
Can any truth be found here? It cannot be said with any certainty, or the case would already be solved, but it MUST be reviewed.
