I am trying in my mind to picture this. So he is really mad, he was so mad at having to pay child support, or sharing his kids with another man or mad about a ring or how he looked on TV, something of this sort. She comes in with the kids, it is 3:18 and they run to daddy, greetings all around and then bam! He knocks her down and she can't get up, and then he drags her to the bedroom and gags her and ties her up and then by now the kids are screaming and he takes them out to his truck, and gets them into car seats and then runs to get her keys and hids the hummer and then goes back and grabs Michelle, still alive and puts her in the hummer in the garage, runs out and heads over to his Dad's via Hoffner, he remembered to grab her cell phone as he put Michelle in the hummer and now it is ringing, it is Dustin and he texts back "Waterford" and then continues over to Sr. Now he has to leave in his truck back to his condo to kill Michelle who is still in the garage and then he takes her and the hummer, leaving the truck outside I guess and drive back to the Mall area and....no he has to get rid of Michelle because she is dead and then go to the Mall and drop off the hummer and then get a ride back from dad.
I am not seeing it.....
No,your description is not how I see it going down.
She picks her toddlers up at daycare around 2;30ish. If they are anything like mine were, they probably fell asleep in the car on the way to Dale's.
So she drives up and he comes out and sees they are both asleep. Perfect timing for Dale, as he was considering getting rid of her, if things worked out correctly. So he is able to suggest she pull the Hummer into the garage, so they can take the sleeping kids out without waking them.
They each take one child up to their room, and tuck them in safely. He closes their door, and they are out of his way for the rest of the time.
He follows Michelle back out to the garage, making small talk, but being a silent predator. His marine training kicks in when necessary. As she turns to climb into her Hummer, he wraps a rope around her neck and begins to choke her out, knocking her unconscious. Then he duct tapes her, gags her, or handcuffs her, hog ties her, whatever is his preference, and throws her in the back seat of her Hummer. He takes her cell phone from the car, because he needs to keep track of her family's communication, so he knows how long until the alarm bells go out.
He runs upstairs, puts the sleeping kids in his truck, and heads out to his folks. On the way there, he hears the text coming in, with the brother saying ' where are you/?. Dale does not want them to start worrying yet, so he says 'Waterford' just so he can buy himself some time.
He drives to his folks, smiles and waves at the neighbor, to help establish his alibi, and takes the kids inside to grandma. Now he tells Dale Sr that he messed up, and needs help. There are any number of ways they carried out the next tasks. But it is very doable. Many scenarios have been set forth, and I am not sure which one he followed. But it is easy to wait until after dark, and drive her Hummer to the dump site. They could have transferred her to his work truck, and alive, she would not leave any residue behind. Especially if they transferred her to a large container first.