When I was in High School my friend Todd had a pet Tarantula(normal size) named Terry.I actually like spiders - especially jumping spiders that are sort of cute if you take the time to look at their faces. They also have a brain that's, in proportion to body, about the same size as ours.
I used to hold it in the flat palm of my hand which was safe since they cant bite you there,they need and angle like a finger or the side of your hand.
I remember he used to buy cartons of crickets to feed to it.