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Re: SM's new mugshot
I still can't believe how I could walk past SM in my own house and not realize it was him.
NO, NO, NO, NO, NO! Haha. I just meant that if he was in my house, I wouldn't recognize him.??
SM was in your house?
Wow, doesn't look like SM at all!!!http://public.doc.state.sc.us/scdc-public/inmateDetails.do?id= 00373721
Photo is up now
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He definitely didn't look like that in the courthouse. I don't know if a fresh shave is part of the standard booking procedure at this particular prison or what, but I'm willing to bet his new look isn't by choice.
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Before he looked like just a doofus to me ... now he looks the part ... evil
This was always the part I never understood. What could HE have possibly found attractive about that man? I feel like that has shaken my world view nearly as much as her disappearance!
Yes, my thoughts exactly ... then I think back to when I was in my late teens, early 20s, working the restaurants, enjoyed flirting with the guys at work and thinking back, quite a few of them were, um, not exactly lookers themselves LOL But yes, I just wonder what the fascination with him was .. the attention from an older man? Feeling sneaky knowing he was married? Maybe it was exciting for her? She probably thought in her mind it was more "serious" than it was, obviously, but still felt the need to keep going until they called it off .. he should have just left her alone after the end .. if she wasn't contacting him for over a month after they called it quits, why did he or the MRS feel the need to plot this? He is where he belongs, and TM deserves just the same!
Looking at SM through the eyes of a 40 or 50-something year old woman vs a 20 year old woman is quite a different experience.
Attraction between humans can be, and often is, inexplicable. It's about chemistry and projection and more chemistry and it doesn't have anything to do with logic.
Heather found SM hot and stated so in her social media postings on several occasions. She wasn't thinking of him like someone the age of her mother or older would, looking at various other aspects of the person.
A possible pregnancy is what caused their reactions all of a sudden. SM and TM got wind of this possibility and that was the nail in HE's coffin, so to speak. Are you guys forgetting that SM specifically drove to Walmart to purchase a pregnancy test 30 min before calling Heather from that payphone? It wasn't just a coincidence.
why would the call from SM make her so upset?
A possible pregnancy is what caused their reactions all of a sudden. SM and TM got wind of this possibility and that was the nail in HE's coffin, so to speak. Are you guys forgetting that SM specifically drove to Walmart to purchase a pregnancy test 30 min before calling Heather from that payphone? It wasn't just a coincidence.
She had been doing really well, moving on, working on getting her life together, getting over the affair and even starting to date. The call from someone who she had an intense affair with (intense for her), telling her he missed her and left his wife and wanted to be with her, was probably shocking and unexpected. Such a proclamation would easily rip the scab off, putting her mind in turmoil, at war with herself.
She wanted to be strong and keep moving on, she felt weak and these were the words she had longed to hear. Turmoil, confusion, 2 competing desires and knowing she was going to succumb because she felt weak even if it wasn't the best thing for her. I understand those kind of tears, that level of angst.
Did Heather believe she was pregnant at the time of that call? Don't know. Was Heather actually pregnant? Don't know. How did SM find out? Simple. He did maintenance work at Tilted Kilt. Heather worked at Tilted Kilt. Rumor was she had suddenly gained weight and went up 2 sizes in her uniform. She was mentioning it to a couple gals. Young women gossip. Gossip gets out. SM was privy to some of the gossip.