gitana1
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Yes it makes perfect sense. Thanks. I wonder if Kaine's attorney might regret bringing the landscaper into the child custody proceeding at all. I think he's already said in his deposition that Terri told him at the restaurant that Kaine was abusive to her. And Desiree also accused Kaine of abuse and obtained a restraining order.
http://www.wweek.com/portland/article-12134-troubled_family.html
What hasn’t been made public is the fact that, a month after filing for divorce, Young sought a restraining order against Kaine Horman, Kyron’s dad.
At the time, she had a 7-year-old son from a previous marriage. In court documents, Young said she feared Kaine Horman would “remove our children from their residence.”
The landscaper's possible testimony will not hurt Kaine. Most people who try to take out hits on their spouses allege abuse. Terri is never getting physical custody of the child, K.
A Judge did issue a restraining order. I think most would consider emotional fear as a form of abuse.
I think you mean "emotional abuse", right? Because "Emotional fear" is not a form of abuse. Fear is an emotion. Abuse is an action.
If you mean emotional abuse, unless that abuse involves threats to harm or harassment, it will not merit a restraining order. Instead, the way to resolve it is getting away from the person and getting therapy. Restraining orders are used to prevent very specific behavior. Being mean does not qualify unless there is more.
Also, there is nothing to suggest that a domestic violence restraining order was ever issued against Kaine.
It was a restraining order to prevent him from taking Kyron. In fact, the court eventually restricted both of them from removing Kyron from the other's care.
While I do remember allegations from Desiree about Kaine's conduct, the restraining order, as far as I can tell, had nothing to do with alleged abuse. It was simply to prevent him from taking Kyron from her, and the same strictures were applied to her as well.
Yup. Restraining orders preventing a spouse from taking a child out of state or the county are common and have nothing to do with domestic violence, usually.
In California, those kinds of restraining orders are automatic. It has to do with jurisdictional issues. For example, if Desiree wanted a divorce and Kaine got wind of it, perhaps he would want to move out of state near relatives and battle a divorce there, where it would be easier for him. (This kind of thing happens all the time).
Thus, this type of restraining order is sought to prevent that kind of thing.