I agree that the child should not have talked to media at all. And children do have a confused sense of time sometimes. I do however doubt that he was confused about what day it was when he last saw Kyron. I think with all the hubub going on that day when Kyron was reported (or finally noticed!) to be missing I doubt the child got the day wrong. I got the impression that he came out with his story right away - at least in the sense that he told an adult who then contacted police. And I thought that the claims about the child's story were "out there" in the media before he talked directly to the media. At least I recall reading that he was last seen by a friend well before the friend talked to the press. Personally I see no reason to doubt the child's story. Maybe the police have one but I haven't seen it.
Also - just for the sake of full disclosure and because it bears some similarity to Kyron's case - I had a classmate in the early 1980's that was murdered during the school year. Granted I was older than Kyron's friend at the time but based on my experience I can tell you it's the kind of thing you don't forget. The shock of something like that happening crystalizes events in your mind like no other! I remember when I had last seen her and what she had said to me even though the last time I saw her it had been days before anyone at the school was even notified that she was missing. In addition, I and everyone else in town at the time was convinced that her father was the perp. The media jumped on that family. The other children were taken away and put in foster care. There were seriously ugly stories that came out about what had been supposedly going on in that house. My classmate's case was not solved for many, many years. For all that time EVERYONE thought the father had done it. Eventually the other children were quietly returned to the family and the media moved on but the damage was never undone. The media/the town/me/everyone had zeroed in on the father as the perp and that was it. Believe me, everything that the media printed and the police said at the time made that father look guilty as hell. Turns out the "case" against the father was all rumor, media spin and a lot of it outright lies. When my classmate's case was finally solved it turned out that she had been abducted and murdered by a serial killer. Someone who was never even on the radar at the time. If it weren't for DNA it would have never been solved and everyone would still think her father did it. (This case is on the WS forum btw).
That experience (and a few others that are unfortunately just as horrible) in life has taught me not to swallow whole what I'm told. I won't just go by some reporter's interpretation of a case - I'll read the official documents myself. And even more importantly - things are often not what they seem and the world is sadly a whole lot more random than most people would like to believe.
About the teacher changing the story. This is one of those things that may have been muddied just due to the haste and speed with which stories were coming out initially. Do you know if the teacher was ever directly quoted as saying something to the effect that she thought Kyron was in the bathroom? I remember that statement being attributed to her early on and then later it was changed to she thought he had a doctor appointment. I admit that when I was first reading and following the case as it happened the teacher (and by extension the school) came off like she was back pedaling fast to cover herself from any liability. I'd have to go back and read all the original articles to refresh my memory as to specifics but that was the distinct impression that I got.
I personally think the school has gotten off scot free because among the few facts that we actually know about this case, the fact that they were negligent is clear. They should have noticed and reported that Kyron was missing. Additionally if in fact Terri DID create a doctors appointment as a ruse and tell the teacher that then there should have been sign out procedures in place so that there would be no question of where Kyron was/why he was not at school/and on whose authorization he was absent. There should have been video cameras at the school. There should have been sign in procedures for anyone entering the school. I could go on and on. If the school had done anything they should have done then we would not have nearly so many questions about this case.
I am very sorry to hear about your childhood classmate, and I am happy that they were able to eventually solve the case. I do know people who have been involved in Kyron's case, and it is not just speculation about Terri. Law enforcement is absolutely convinced that she is responsible for Kyron's disappearance; what they don't have yet is what they feel is enough for a slam dunk prosecution. It is really difficult to prove a case built on circumstantial evidence.
Regarding Kyron's classmate, T--you misunderstood my post. I don't believe that T was necessarily confused about the day he saw Kyron. I believe that he was confused about the
time he saw him and possibly confused about the classroom incident he relayed about the "substitute teacher", and Kyron's visit to the bathroom.
About Ms. Porter being quoted as saying something about Kyron being in the bathroom--no she has never made
any public statements, actually. I don't understand where you would get that from? I live in the local area, and from the beginning the doctor's appointment story, (Terri's claim that she told Kyron's teacher that he had a doctor's appointment for June 11, 2010, and Ms. Porter misunderstanding it to be June 4, 2010), has been out there. Even Kyron's friend, K, knew about the doctor's appointment and expected Kyron not to be in school that day. On another note, I have
heard--but I have no way of proving it--that the classmate, T, was not really a friend of Kyron's but someone who shared his desk and was known to bully him. The child, K, is actually a friend of Kyron's who spent time with Kyron and his family.
Regarding Skyline School, I don't believe that they should be held culpable for Terri's actions. The science fair was going on at that early morning hour to provide parents who work with the opportunity to view their children's and classmates' projects. Since Terri claims to have left Kyron alone in a hallway near his classroom and didn't hand him directly over to a staff member or his teacher, she should be the person held accountable, in my opinion. In hindsight, I wish that the teacher and school staff would have required documentation from Terri regarding the doctor's appointment. But, I feel that the teacher innocently fell for Terri's ruse and really thought that Kyron was safely with his stepmother. Video cameras are not the standard in public schools, but I wish that they were. The school does have sign out procedures, but in this case the child arrived with his parent, and was believed to have left with said parent. Who would ever imagine that a
mother would knowingly leave a 7 year old child alone in a hallway during a busy school event without letting his teacher know and just walk away? Would you do that yourself?