Did you ever see the email that started all these messages back and forth? Not the one regarding the funeral, I'm talking way back.
It was a message from Lois to KC saying KC didn't have the child in question as a friend and let's fix that up right away.
IIRC this was after Lois was warned by CA that KC wasn't supposed to be on line 'so let's just keep this among us girls'. I'll find the links and post them but Lois deserves whatever Lois gets from CA, she interjected herself into the family as a KC supporter. Spent time in their home. Then when the lab results came back showing a deceased Caylee had been KC's trunk, Lois changed her mind. Which is her right to do, what she didn't need to do was blog on line as "D's mom or D's gmom" and make comments about keeping the A's away from her child. Inappropriate, all of it was inappropriate.
And why do I have the feeling that Lois never just sent CA a note saying her gchild was just too emotional and too upset about the whole situation and she needed some time and space to heal. In all their own grief over Caylee, the A's had continued sending Lois notes inquiring about her gdaughter. CA was sending Lois letters of support.
BTW it wasn't KC's arrest that upset little D so much, it was the FBI reports. D actually said to Lois "If Caylee is dead then I want to be dead too" as she ran out of the house into the rain. Lois had her whole neighborhood searching for D, before Lois herself found her and had her admitted to the hospital after suffering a nervous breakdown. If my 12 yo gchild was so fragile, I wouldn't have let her get wound up in this mess in the first place. The responsibility lies solely on Lois and I need to go to the rant thread before I end up on vacation.