I don't mean this in a mean way, but Patsy's age (despite the age difference with John) looks like she is catching up in looks with John's age I guess due to her illness and weight gain. I always thought she looked so much younger, but it doesn't look that way anymore. I am so suprised they're still together. They actually look so happy and at ease in that picture. The Christmas tree in the background made me feel kind of sick. Anyone else feel that way?