Kymistry35
It's never to late to be who you could have been
I think it is obvious that the father knows more than he is saying.
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I must have missed where it was said S. Kerr had a temper... and what has he done before to the boy?To me there are to things that really stand out...the adoptive father was the last one with the boy and the biggest is the note.
Kerr [adoptive father] said Rainwalker left behind a note that said, "Goodbye," but Persons said the boy wrote that note the night before at her home as a "homework" assignment for his father. She said Rainwalker was happy when he left her house and that he was looking forward to visiting the Personses again the following weekend.
It sounds like the adoptive father already knew what he was going to do. He had the boy write that note as part of a homework assignment...whoever heard of such a thing...and then said that the boy left the note behind.
Didn't the respite mother think that having the boy write that note was really strange and frightening? It should have sent up huge red flags. It doesn't even make sense to have that little boy write something like that.
I wonder where the adoptive mother stands? She knows what a red hot temper her husband has. She knows what he did to the boy before. I wonder if he left when she asked him to after that incident at the creek? Why did she want to take troubled children knowing that her husband is the way he is...for the money? The state pays around $1,000 or more a month for troubled children like this little boy. Sounds like the adoptive father really added to the boys problems. I hope they can prove that he killed that little boy. When the family thinks a person is capable and that they did it then it is usually true. Poor little guy. He is a real handsome boy.
My guess would be certain heart problems/cardiovascular stress could throw off a polygraph as it is testing stress levels. His lawyer probably advised him not to take it due to preexisting conditions he has, that could fudge the polygraph. I found this site on polygraphs and physical conditions:
http://www.polygraphplace.com/ubb/NonCGI/Forum1/HTML/000545.html
My opinion....odd. It didn't seem like they were discussing a missing child...very happy, relaxed, like a Barbara Walters interview. Of course people's personalities are very different.
I also find it odd this statement: "Many of my friends have come to me over the years and said I don't know how you do what you do. You have endless patience, which I don't. You have a deep (inaudible) compassion, which I don't. I do what I do mostly because of the relationship with my wife." I truely am not sure if that bolded statement means anything. The discussion of the bag, if he took a bag, if he left with nothing or not, was a tad odd I feel as well. The dad is flat-out odd, but being odd dosn't make you a criminal though.
The reasoning for not taking the test at the time makes, IMO, sense. However, if things have settled down now, taking the test now, IMO, should happen.
I must have missed where it was said S. Kerr had a temper... and what has he done before to the boy?
I agree, the "homework assignment" is a big red flag.
Maybe you have misread? The bolded statement in your post is what friend's have said to the father. Not what the father is saying about himself. Friends tell him, you have so much patience, so much compassion, to be able to do what you do with these kids. Dad replies, "my relationship with my wife enables me to do what I do" He's just saying he has a strong marriage, and that together he and his wife can handle these special needs kids and love them and provide them with a home.
What I read is his friends telling him over the years that he must have a lot of patience and he answers "but I don't" and that he must have a lot of compassion and he answers "but I don't." He goes on to say that he does this for the sake of his wife. It was probably something that she always wanted to do and he just went along with it because she wanted to do it.
According to his mother-in-law and the respite mother Mr. Kerr doesn't have any patience with this boy. And it sounds like compassion left the room. They both talk about his short fuse and how bad it is. At least he was being honest be saying that he isn't a compassionate patient person!
This is such a sad story! We are trying to become foster parents and this is just so heartbreaking.
Seems like the adopted parents just wanted the money from the state instead of wanting to raise this wonderful little boy. Sadly, I knew of a couple just like this. They raised the little boy from birth only to give him "back" once the money ran out.