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this is 2012 stats but found it interesting.....http://www.statista.com/statistics/195327/murder-in-the-us-by-relationship-of-victim-to-offender/
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Thanks cujenn81-I've wondered this myself and I did some research about search warrants and digital/internet files. From the info I've gathered, LE is NOT required to inform the owner of the records if they are issued a search warrant from a judge. So if LE has obtained a search warrant for the social media records/data of anyone other than HE, I'd venture to say the owner probably isn't aware the records are in LE's possession.
ETA: And I assume the individual who has proven to be the last known person to have communicated with HE (calls, PMs, texts, or otherwise) would be someone LE would have enough probable cause to obtain those warrants on... based just on the fact that they were the last one with whom she had contact. Point being: I'm fairly confident LE has already obtained any available SM records on that/those person(s).
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this is 2012 stats but found it interesting.....http://www.statista.com/statistics/195327/murder-in-the-us-by-relationship-of-victim-to-offender/
I am thinking maybe he DID leave his wife...at least for the night, and was out on his own and decided to track down Heather. That would make more sense than all of that phone activity from home, with wife there. Maybe he was hoping ti spend the night at her place, but she said no, only agreeing to meet elsewhere.
Thanks cujenn81-
It also makes me wonder if the search warrant was issued for a specific time (dates) for the social media accts, or if there is a continuous monitoring of those accts.
RE: Phone activity being damaging. Whether calls or texts, the damaging part may come into play depending on what initiators/recipients of those calls said about the calls (For example: did an initiators/recipient say that they only called once, and there were really fifteen calls? Did they initially say they only sent a text and it was a phone call? Did they say they had no contact after the 3:41 call and they did? ). Also, it might depend on who initiated the calls and subsequent pings on both parties phones. (not that TE would know necessarily know about the pings on the second parties phones, but he might). And in general, IMO, middle of the night phone calls to someone who disappears really soon after, if not immediately after, are damaging to credibility (have a detrimental effect on) unless followed with a good explanation or an alibi.
What gives me the most hope is that even though T-Mobile does not keep text information, other carriers do. The initiators/recipients phones might have any text conversation and those records should be in LE hands.
And I haven't caught up, but what HE said to BW is not hearsay (her words, specifically). What HE said SM said IS hearsay (because BW did not hear SM directly--unless they were on a group call)
I believe he said it to lure her out... I do not believe he meant it at all.
I believe I'd have to know any prior history. There ARE certainly some men with multiple babies and not only wives,but girlfriends on the side. Some men like that persona and some wives even tolerate it as long as they keep paying the bills. Heck, there are even some women who'll seek that kind of man out in order to live supported. It's a crazy world out there and I can't begin to understand if there's any logic to it.
Of course,there's also clueless,naive women who fall for all these manipulating lies and comments. It's easy to imagine you've found that "perfect" love and you'll be in love forever.:moo:
mods , thanks for the V Day break , MS Topcat says she appreciated it:seeya:
I believe he said it to lure her out... I do not believe he meant it at all.
I believe I'd have to know any prior history. There ARE certainly some men with multiple babies and not only wives,but girlfriends on the side. Some men like that persona and some wives even tolerate it as long as they keep paying the bills. Heck, there are even some women who'll seek that kind of man out in order to live supported. It's a crazy world out there and I can't begin to understand if there's any logic to it.
Of course,there's also clueless,naive women who fall for all these manipulating lies and comments. It's easy to imagine you've found that "perfect" love and you'll be in love forever.:moo:
Agree that their history is important. Call me crazy but I do not think the person being referred to has the means to support multiple families, nor do I think they are married to someone who would tolerate their spouse having another family (whoever that would consist of), nor do I think HE was the type of person who would want to share the love interest in her life. I know we have the obvious but I think, based on the limited knowledge I have, that SM must've made a statement that he would leave in order to keep HE around, probably many times depending on the length of their relationship.
As to the original point I don't know if he meant it (he left or was leaving) or not. I do believe he wanted to mean it.
Hopefully new precedent was established in the BBPD Lt. Drew Peterson trial concerning hearsay rulings;
Sep 08, 2012 · A 2008 law tailored to Drew Peterson ... Hearsay Rule Vexed ... It was the first case in Illinois history to permit the use of hearsay evidence, ..http://www.bing.com/search?setmkt=en-US&q=drew+peterson+hearsay+evidence+ruling
This, to me, definitely makes more sense. It would explain why Heather was upset, knowing his leaving would set his wife off and blame her for the break-up. Maybe the back and forth calls were OMM reassuring Heather that it would be safe to meet him. I don't picture him as a killer, but I can picture someone else easily fitting that role. That person, already jealous for months and possibly scheming to eliminate her competition all along, was furious her husband left her, enraged at the thought of him running to Heather, so she followed him to avenge her competition. After the fact, I think she convinced OMM to keep his mouth shut about what she did, threatening him that all the evidence points his way. I believe he may have had some role in transportation and disposal, as she already had a place in mind. Because he may have had limited involvement, he won't come forward with the truth. JMO
Very well said and I completely agree with everything you said. I've also thought he just doesn't seem to me like he has it in him. Of course I've never met him, but.....[modsnip].
I agree...IMO he is too weak to have done this on his own. He may have had limited involvement but I don't think he came up with the idea. Whether he was a willing partner, or involved after the fact, I don't know. But, I do believe it is likely that someone involved him in some way, and now has the means to keep him quiet.
Sad, really.