Student suspended over call from mom in Iraq

[ISPTRAX]

I just wonder when the profanity started? If the teacher didn't know who he was talking to and told him to hang up and the student started the profanity, then I say he needs punished for being so disrespectful and rude.

 

[fran]

Oh, and I let the principal of that school know how I feel also. IMO, they should reconsider their actions, reconsider the 10 day suspension, perhaps a couple of after school or a Saturday detention for his 'bad words.'

How would the school feel IF this were the last time this student was able to talk to his mom? What if she comes home in a body bag?
JMHO
fran

:doh:
Well, I guess this principal isn't going to know how I felt, my email was returned as her mailbox is tooooo full! Ehhh, looks like this story is going to continue...........

fran

 

[Izzy Mae]

i saw this article the other day - i can relate to the boy on the phone. I was a good student, a's in conduct, but i'd buck the system whenever i thought teachers were unreasonable - my parents always backed me.

 

[mysteriew]

As a teacher and the daughter of a veteran, I would have allowed the young man to go to the hall to talk with his mother after confirming that it was his mother. However, I would have been in trouble with the school administration. Frankly, it would be worth it! The funny thing is that I am considered (along with my two best friends) to be one of the most strict teachers in the school! Of course the two of them (my friends) would have confirmed that it was the mother and allowed him to take the call in the hall as well--they, too, are the adult children of veterans.
In this case, I think the student should be required to write a paper about discipline and appropriate behavior to someone in authority OR alternative ways he could have managed the situation. Suspension is ridiculous!

I wish you were my child's teacher!

One of the problems I have with school's discipline policy's. We as parents try to work with our kids to teach them appropriate ways to act.
We send them to school to learn. Yet when the kid acts up at school the response is suspension. There is no attempt to teach the kid a more appropriate way to respond (they are just supposed to know that automatically I guess) So the kid acts up, they get a few days off to sleep late, watch tv, and hang out. What does that teach a kid?
I think with every suspension, before the kid is to be returned to class, they should have to write or otherwise show evidence that they have worked out what they did wrong, appropriate ways they could have handled the situation. Why not take the time to teach the kid better behavior?
Yes they should be learning this at home. But teaching it should be joint effort between the school and the parents.
My kid got suspended once. When I went to the school to pick up the homework that would be assigned during the time of his suspension, the principal said I don't understand, because he said my son wouldn't get credit for doing it. Credit wasn't the issue. Learning was. While home those two days, my kid had to do the school work and when he wasn't doing that, he was assigned extra chores around the house. In addition he had to write a paper for me telling what he did wrong, and how a more appropriate way to act would have been. No TV, games, or phone calls were allowed during that time. If he had any extra time he could read. He was so happy when he was allowed to return to school!

 

[Mabel]

It's not in the posted article, but the boy's father was killed when the boy was only five years old. He hadn't had an opportunity to speak to his mother in quite some time. It's unfortunate that he reacted the way he did when he was told to hang up, but it's also understandable. He doesn't need to be suspended, he needs a hug.

Update: His suspension has been reduced to 3 days. I still don't agree with it, but at least he won't be required to make up the whole semester.

 

[fran]

It's not in the posted article, but the boy's father was killed when the boy was only five years old. He hadn't had an opportunity to speak to his mother in quite some time. It's unfortunate that he reacted the way he did when he was told to hang up, but it's also understandable. He doesn't need to be suspended, he needs a hug.

Update: His suspension has been reduced to 3 days. I still don't agree with it, but at least he won't be required to make up the whole semester.

You're absolutely right about the {{hug}} Mabel. If they'd done that in the first place, there wouldn't have been a confrontation and no need for any suspension at all!

Thanks for the update. I too don't agree with it, but I guess 3 days is better than 10 days.

JMHO
fran

 

[Tom'sGirl]

Boy, I'd have a big problem with a school that had a signal blocker. I'm one of those nutty parents that MAKE my high school aged child bring a cell phone to school. It is on, it is on silent, and he is to use it for only two purposes during school hours. He can dial 911 if there is a Columbine type thing. And he can call me if he needs to.

I got the phone for him when I was informed of our school's emergency plan. They basically wanted to ring the alarm and have all the kids march out to the football field.....when I told them that if I were planning some trouble and knew that plan, I'd be up on top of the bleachers and I could pick 'em off as they entered the field, they came up with a new and better plan.

Part of the plan involves shutting down the streets surrounding the school and I live right by here....it would drive me crazy to know my child was in a dangerous position and not be able to speak with him, so I got him the phone.

I can't help but feel when his mom learns of her son's 3 day suspension it will only add to her already stressful assignment in Iraq. I wonder if the teacher knew he was speaking with his mom? If she did, then she could have been a bit more tactful in the handling of the matter.

The high school where I worked had/has an In-House Suspension Room in leiu of at home suspension. A district does not get paid for students on at home suspension. Before the In-House S-room was implemented most kids liked the few days off to kick around and do nothing, now it's not so great to be suspended :loser:

In most school districts (at least out here) when an fire drill activates all students in the classrooms are escorted to either a baseball, football or other field (this is the only way a head-count can be made). When a LOCK-DOWN alarm is sounded all classroom doors are locked and no one leaves the class and all gates to the campus are secured.

Cell phones in our district are banned and in the classrooms are useless anyway as firewalls block the signal. However, my daughter who works for the same district I retired from can call me from an open area away from the buildings.