SilkySifaka
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I thought I heard BD say last night it was unusual for Hailey to be outside using the phone & she only did that on occasion to have privacy & to limit any family background noise..Then how do we explain at least 1 neighbor if not more (?) claiming she spent tons of time out in the yard "talking" on the phone?
And going into that shed alot for whatever reason which may not be connected to phone use..As in mom's prepaid cell..Was she texting on a phone mom didn't know about? Or maybe she was smoking pot in there? That wouldn't shock me at all..All teens need a place to do that IF they're into it which much MANY are & have been for years.
IIRC, BD also began to say something about why would she do that (be out in the yard talking) IF nobody was home but got cut off by NG..I'm wondering if she even realized that comment was throwing SA under the bus..I have a feeling she didn't but I could be wrong.
BBM you sound like a very understanding mom :woohoo:
in all honesty i think the thing about taking the phone outside to talk is a bit of a red herring. Mom might think it was only if someone was home, or no one was home etc. but what in the world is more natural for a kid than to walk outside to talk. Especially if they have an older brother. I think it would happen half the time, and mom may not even have thought about it or meant to have her sentence parsed like that.
In no way do I think it increases or decreases the likelihood of someone in the house. All depends on weather and mood. If she felt like talking outside she would have and vice versa.
Not that its unimportant if she was, just that it doesn't really tell us anything no matter what mom said, it has to many other possible variables. Like a lousy connection one hour and a good one the next.